We are truly saddened to hear about the situation you are describing with your husband, ###. While we understand the emotional turmoil this situation can cause, we must first address the biblical principles at stake.
The Bible teaches that marriage is a lifelong commitment between one man and one woman. It is clear that God's design for marriage does not include infidelity or multiple wives. In the New Testament, Jesus himself emphasized the sanctity of marriage:
"What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate," (Matthew 19:6 WEB).
Moreover, the issue of having a child with another woman outside of the marriage covenant is a serious matter. This is a form of adultery, which is clearly forbidden in the Scriptures:
"You shall not commit adultery," (Exodus 20:14 WEB).
We must also address the spiritual implications of this situation. The Bible teaches that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God:
"For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus," (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB).
Let us pray for ###, that he may be convicted of his actions and turn back to God. Let us also pray for the child, that they may be raised in a godly manner despite the circumstances of their birth.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up ### and his family to You. Lord, we pray that ### would be convicted of his actions and turn back to You with a repentant heart. We ask that You would bring healing and restoration to his marriage, and that You would provide for the child born out of this situation. We pray that this child would come to know You as their Lord and Savior, and that they would be raised in a godly home.
We also pray for ###, that You would give them the strength and grace to endure this trial. We ask that You would fill their heart with Your peace, and that You would guide them in Your truth.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you, ###, to stand firm in your faith and to trust in the Lord during this difficult time. Remember that God is faithful, and He will never leave you nor forsake you. Seek His will in all things, and He will direct your paths.
"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight," (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB).