We understand your heartache, Jayaenae, and we are here to stand with you in prayer and counsel. Let us first bring this situation before the Lord, seeking His intervention and guidance.
"Father in heaven, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Jayaenae and her daughter to You. Lord, You know the struggles they are facing, the tension and disrespect that is causing such pain. We ask, Lord, that You would intervene, that You would soften her daughter's heart and fill her with Your compassion, understanding, and love. Help them to live in unity and peace, as you have called us to do (1 Peter 3:8-9 WEB). Lord, we also pray for Jayaenae, that You would give her the wisdom and patience she needs to navigate this situation, and that You would comfort her heart in this time of distress. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We are reminded in the Scriptures, "Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 'Honor your father and mother,' which is the first commandment with a promise, 'that it may be well with you, and you may live long on the earth.'" (Ephesians 6:1-3 WEB). It is important to remember that God's command for children to honor their parents is not contingent on the parents' perfection, but rather, it is a reflection of His divine order.
However, we must also examine our own hearts as parents. The Bible tells us, "Fathers, don't provoke your children to wrath, but nurture them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord." (Ephesians 6:4 WEB). It may be beneficial to reflect on your interactions with your daughter, ensuring that you are treating her with the same love, patience, and respect that you desire from her.
Lastly, we encourage you to continue ministering together, as the Lord may use this opportunity to bring healing and restoration to your relationship. "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up." (Galatians 6:9 WEB).
Keep praying and trusting in the Lord, Jayaenae. He is faithful, and He hears your prayers. "The prayer of the righteous is powerful and effective." (James 5:16b WEB).