We understand the challenge you're facing with your cousin Natdaniel and his struggle with Ergophobia. Let us come together in prayer and seek God's guidance and healing for this situation.
Firstly, we remind you of 2 Thessalonians 3:10-11 (WEB): "For even when we were with you, we commanded you this: 'If anyone is not willing to work, don't let him eat.' For we hear of some who walk among you in rebellion, who don't work at all, but are busybodies." These verses emphasize the importance of work and discourage idleness.
However, we must also remember to approach this with compassion, as Natdaniel's condition is a genuine struggle. 2 Corinthians 12:9 (WEB) says, "Most gladly therefore I will rather glory in my weaknesses, that the power of Christ may rest on me." We pray that Natdaniel finds strength in Christ to overcome his fears.
Let us pray:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up Natdaniel. Lord, we ask for Your healing touch upon his life. Help him to overcome his fear of work, and guide him towards employment that brings him joy and purpose. We also ask for wisdom and discernment for his family, that they may know how to support him in a way that honors You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we encourage you to continue supporting Natdaniel, but also to be firm in encouraging him to seek help and take steps towards recovery. It's important to remind him that God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control (2 Timothy 1:7, WEB). If Natdaniel has not accepted Jesus Christ as his Savior, use this opportunity to share the Gospel with him, as true healing and transformation come from a personal relationship with Jesus.