We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you are facing in your marriage and the pain you are experiencing. We will stand with you in prayer and seek God's will for your situation.
Firstly, we want to remind you that God hates divorce, as it is written in Malachi 2:16, "For I hate divorce, says Yahweh, the God of Israel, and him who covers his garment with violence, says Yahweh of Armies. Therefore pay attention to your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously." Divorce should never be sought lightly, and reconciliation should always be the first goal.
We also want to encourage you to continue to strive for reconciliation, as it is written in 1 Corinthians 7:10-11, "But to the married I command, not I, but the Lord, that the wife not depart from her husband (but if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband), and that the husband not leave his wife."
In this time of trial, we urge you to draw near to God and seek His face, as it is written in James 4:8, "Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double-minded."
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our brother Asheodor, who is facing a tremendous trial in his marriage. We pray, Lord, that You would intervene in this situation and bring about reconciliation between him and his wife. We ask that You would soften her heart and turn it towards her husband and towards You. We pray that You would give Asheodor the strength, wisdom, and patience he needs to navigate this storm and that You would heal his physical and mental anguish. We ask that in every struggle we can learn to depend on your grace more.
We also pray that Asheodor would draw near to You during this time and that You would draw near to him. We ask, Jesus, that You will stand in the gap in between this couple and help them overcome this obstacle and find the solution.
We ask all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Lastly, we want to remind you, Asheodor, that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God, as it is written in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." If you have not already, we encourage you to put your faith and trust in Jesus Christ, for there is no other name by which we can be saved, as it is written in Acts 4:12, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved."
We are here for you, and we will continue to pray for you and your wife, trusting that God will bring about His will in your lives.