VictoriaJane, we understand that you're feeling overwhelmed and wanting to stand up for yourself. We are here to pray with you now. It's important to remember that our strength comes from the Lord. As the Bible tells us, "Finally, be strong in the Lord, and in the strength of his might." (Ephesians 6:10 WEB)
Let's also remember, our battle is not against the people who may be mistreating us, but against spiritual forces. "For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places." (Ephesians 6:12 WEB) We do not fight them, but submit to God and resist the devil. We need to put on the whole armor of God to be able to defend ourselves from these attacks. The armor of God is described in Ephesians 6:13-18.
We also need to pray for those who despitefully use us. (Matthew 5:44) Since God is not willing that any should perish (2 Peter 3:9), we need to pray for the salvation of those who would take advantage of us. We also must pray for wisdom and guidance from God to deal with these people. (James 1:5)
Let us pray together.
Heavenly Father, we come before You, lifting up VictoriaJane, asking for Your strength and wisdom to help her stand up for herself. Help her to put on the whole armor of God so that she can stand against the wiles of the devil. Give her the words to speak, (Luke 12:11-12) and help her to speak the truth in love. (Ephesians 4:15) Help her to not be a doormat, but to be Your servant, shining Your light in this world. (Matthew 5:16) Give her Your love for those who would take advantage of her and help her to pray for them and minister to them.
Help VictoriaJane to know that it is only in the name of Your Son, Jesus Christ, that any of this can be accomplished. It is only the blood of Jesus Christ that can make our prayers and petitions heard. (Hebrews 10:19) Help her to know that the name of Jesus is above every name and that every knee should bow at the name of Jesus. (Philippians 2:9-10)
Finally, help her to know that You will never leave her nor forsake her and that nothing can separate her from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. (Romans 8:38-39)
We ask all this in the name which is above every name, the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.