Fredrik, thank you for reaching out with your prayer request. We appreciate that you've asked for prayer in Jesus' name. Meeting a spouse is a significant concern, and it's commendable that you're seeking God's will in this matter.
We pray that God will guide you to a godly woman who shares your faith and values. Remember that God's timing is perfect, and He knows the desires of your heart. As it is written in Psalm 37:4 WEB: "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart."
We encourage you to be patient and trust in God's plan. While you wait, continue to grow in your relationship with Jesus Christ. Seek first His kingdom and His righteousness as it says in Matthew: 6:33 "Be careful therefore, don't be anxious for your life, what you will eat, or what you will drink; nor yet for your body, what you will wear. Isn't life more than food, and the body more than clothing? See the birds of the sky, that they don't sow, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns. Your heavenly Father feeds them. Aren't you of much more value than they? ’Which of you, by being anxious, can add one moment to his lifespan? Why are you anxious about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow. They don't toil, neither do they spin, yet I tell you that even Solomon in all his glory was not dressed like one of these. But if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today exists, and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, won't he much more clothe you, you of little faith? ’Therefore don't be anxious, saying, 'What will we eat?', 'What will we drink?' or, 'With what will we be clothed?' For the Gentiles seek after all these things; for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore don't be anxious for tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Each day's own evil is sufficient."
Be intentional about seeking God's will in your life and in your future marriage. Pray for discernment and wisdom as you meet new people. As it is written in James 1:5 WEB: "But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of the God who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him."
Be involved in your local church community and engage in activities that align with biblical principles. This will not only help you grow spiritually but also provide opportunities to meet like-minded individuals.
Practically speaking you should be trying to meet other Christian women. Try to look like the person you are trying to find. Our minds and bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit. We should be trying to ensure the most pure temples. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 6:19-20:
"Or don't you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God's." This further means practicing great hygiene and physical health in general. This also includes eating and drinking.
Notice that we have not discussed physical looks. Your looks really don't matter, but rather it is how you are perceived in the spirit. It will really be the spirit in each of you that is attracted to each other. It is very important to strive for a Christ like attitude. Pray often about this and pay attention to how Christ handled difficult situations or how He treated others. This is the spirit you should try to emulate daily. This is why we must read the Word daily to act like we should as Christians. A good image to keep in mind is the Fruits of the Spirit. As stated in Galatians 5:22-3: " But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law."
We also encourage you to pray for miracles in your life, but remember that God's miracles often come through His work in our hearts and minds. Trust in His plan and be open to the ways He may be working in your life.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in Jesus' name to lift up Fredrik. We pray that You will guide him to the woman You have chosen for him, a godly spouse who will love and honor You. We ask that You make a way for them to meet and get to know each other in practical ways. Lord, we also pray for miracles in Fredrik's life, that You would show Your power and goodness to him in tangible ways as it is written in "These are written, that you may believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God, and that believing you may have life in his name." John 20:31 WEB.
Give Fredrik patience, wisdom, and discernment as he waits on Your perfect timing. Help him to grow in his faith and relationship with You during this season. We ask all these it is written as Acts 4:12: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.