Dexterkoh, we understand your desire for a spouse and the anxiety that can come with waiting. First, we want to remind you that God's timing is perfect. As it is written in Psalm 31:14-15 WEB:
But I trust in you, Yahweh. I said, "You are my God." My times are in your hand...
We must also remind you that worries about the future of having a wife can become idolatry. Idolatry is not just worshiping a statue but having anything that we treasure above God.
1 John 5:21 WEB:
Little children, keep yourselves from idols.
Philippians 4:6-7:
In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petitions with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus.
It is wonderful that you are seeking an equally yoked wife, as this is aligned with biblical principles. It is important that you are in a marriage with a believer, as a married couple should be able to encourage and build each other up in faith. As it is written.
1 Corinthians 7:39 WEB:
A wife is bound by law for as long as her husband lives; but if the husband is dead, she is free to be married to whomever she desires, only in the Lord
We also want to remind you that it is only through faith and belief in Jesus Christ that we can be saved.
Acts 4:12 WEB:
There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today in the name of Jesus, lifting up Dexterkoh. We ask that You will help them to cast all their anxieties on You, knowing that You care for them deeply. We pray that You will guide Dexterkoh to a godly spouse, someone who is equally yoked and shares their faith and values. Help Dexterkoh continue to remain in your word until your appointed time.
Help Dexterkoh to fully trust in Your timing and to find peace and rest in You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
In the meantime, continue to pursue righteousness and grow in your faith. God will bring the right person into your life at the appointed time. Be patient and trust in Him.