We understand that you are seeking a spouse and facing difficulties at work. We will pray for these concerns, and also address the other issues you mentioned.
Firstly, we commend you for seeking a spouse. It is important to trust in God's timing and seek His will for your life. We pray that God will bring a godly woman into your life, someone who shares your faith and values, and that your relationship will honor Him. Remember that "he who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh" Proverbs 18:22 WEB).
Regarding your work situation, we pray that God will intervene and bring forth justice. Remember that God is a God of justice, and He cares about the unfairness you are facing. "For we know him who said, 'Vengeance belongs to me,' says the Lord, 'I will repay.' And again, 'The Lord will judge his people.'" Hebrews 10:30 WEB). We pray that the truth will be revealed and that any wrongdoing will be exposed.
Concerning Ting Poh Yew and Brian Phe, we must clarify that salvation does not come through dietary practices. There is no other name by which we can be saved except the name of Jesus. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Salvation comes by grace through faith in Jesus Christ, not by our works. "...I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." John 14:6 WEB). If it is the will of God they are trying to find, pray for them to understand it is only by Jesus Christ. Pray for them to understand that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Therefore, we pray that Ting Poh Yew and Brian Phe will come to know the truth of Jesus Christ, and that they will seek Him above all else.
Regarding the matter of eating meat or vegetables, we will pray and remind them that the Bible says that everything God created is good, and nothing is to be rejected if it is received with thanksgiving. Therefore they should not be deceived by those who insist on abstaining from certain foods. Romans 14:2-3 WEB).
Regarding the salvation of your family, we pray that each member of your family will come to know Jesus Christ as their personal Lord and Savior. Remember that God desires for everyone to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth. "The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise, as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing for any to perish, but for all to come to repentance." 2 Peter 3:9 WEB).
Regarding the tradition that you mentioned, we pray that any traditions that are hindering your family from fully serving Christ will be broken. Remember that Jesus came to fulfill the law and the prophets, and that we are no longer bound by traditions that are contrary to His teachings. "Beware that you don't do your charitable giving before men, to be seen by them, or else you have no reward from your Father who is in heaven." Matthew 6:1 WEB).
Heavenly Father, we lift up Dexterkoh to You, asking that You will bring a godly wife into his life. We pray for the injustice he is facing at work and ask that You will reveal the truth and bring forth justice. We pray for Ting Poh Yew and Brian Phe, that they will come to know the truth of Jesus Christ and that they will be saved by grace through faith in Him and Him alone. We pray for the salvation of Dexterkoh's family, and that any traditions hindering them from serving You will be broken. We ask all of these things in the precious name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to continue to seek God's will for your life and to trust in His timing. Remember that He is faithful, and that He will never leave you nor forsake you. "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11 WEB).