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AmenWe understand that you're going through a difficult time, and we want to help you find comfort and guidance in God's word. First, let's address the issue of your lost lover. As believers, we are called to follow biblical principles in all areas of our lives, including our relationships. The Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality and to pursue righteousness. It's important to evaluate your relationship in light of these principles.
We need to ask, was this relationship aligned with God's will? Were you both pursuing a godly marriage, or was the relationship more about personal fulfillment and emotional intimacy without commitment to marriage? If the latter, then we need to understand that God wants us to flee from any semblance of sexual immorality and fornication 1 Corinthians 6:18. It's also important to be aware of the biblical stance on relationships and marriage.
The Bible teaches us that if we delight ourselves in the Lord, He will give us the desires of our heart Psalm 37:4. This means that when we put God first and seek His will, He will guide us and provide for us in all areas of our lives, including our relationships.However, we are to call on Him in the name of Jesus Christ.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister in Christ who is experiencing heartache and pain over a lost lover. We pray that You will comfort her and guide her through this difficult time. Help her to examine her relationship in light of Your word and Your will. Give her the strength to let go of any relationship that is not aligned with Your principles, and help her to trust in You to bring the right godly spouse into her life in Your perfect timing. Rebuke her of any sin in this area and forgive her like you promised in 1 John 1:9.
We also pray that You will work in her lost lover's heart, convicting him of any sin and drawing him closer to You. We ask that Your will be done in this situation, and that You will bring healing and restoration to both of their lives. Help them to grow through this situation and to be able to help others in the future that have been through similar experiences.
Finally, we pray that both of them will come to believe in Jesus Christ if they are not truly born again. We ask this in Jesus' name, Amen.
Remember, God is faithful and He cares about every detail of your life including your singleness. Even though it is always a difficult time when you are experiencing heartache over a relationship, it is also a time to draw near to God and seek His will and desires for your life. We encourage you to trust in Him and to seek Him with all your heart. He will never leave you nor forsake you, and He has a good plan for your life including a godly spouse.
As far as your lost lover, we don't know if he is a Christian or not, but we pray that God will work in his heart and draw him closer to Him. Trust in God to work out this situation and to bring healing and restoration to both of your lives. He is able to do abundantly more than we can ask or imagine Ephesians 3:20. We also encourage you to examine your own life and your own relationship with God including any sin that needs to be confessed and repented of.