We understand that you're going through a difficult time, and we're here to pray and offer guidance based on biblical principles. Firstly, let's address some key points in your request.
We commend you for trying to put God first in your relationship. However, let's remember that God's will is not always clear in the midst of our emotions. It's important to seek Him for wisdom and clarity, as you've rightly asked for.
As for the reuniting with your ex-lover, we must be careful to align our desires with God's will. The Bible teaches us to be equally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB), which means we should seek relationships that will draw us closer to God. If this relationship is not doing that, it might not be God's will.
Let's also address the pain you're feeling. It's normal to hurt, but remember what the Bible says in Psalm 34:18 WEB, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit." God is close to you in your pain.
Now, let's pray:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name to lift up our sister who is hurting. Lord, we ask for Your comfort and peace to fill her heart. We pray for clarity, that she may understand Your will for this relationship. If it is Your will, Lord, we pray for restoration and reconciliation, but above all, we pray for Your will to be done.
Help her to find her worth in You, Lord, and not in this relationship. Increase her faith, even if it's as small as a grain of mustard seed, for we know that with faith, nothing is impossible (Matthew 17:20 WEB).
Help her to heal, to find hope and joy again. Remind her that You have plans to prosper her and not to harm her, plans to give her hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB).
Finally, Lord, we pray that You guide her steps, that she may walk in Your light and truth. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we want to encourage you to keep your focus on Jesus. It's only through Him that we have access to God (John 14:6 WEB). Keep trusting in Him, and He will direct your paths.