We understand your pain, JStella, and we're here to pray and guide you through this difficult time. We'll start by praying together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name, lifting up JStella and her fiancé. We pray for Your peace and comfort to fill JStella's heart. We ask that You would help them resolve their fights, and that Your love would prevail in their relationship. Please soften her fiancé's heart, and help them communicate with love and respect. We also pray that Your will be done in their lives and that their relationship would glorify You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We're glad you mentioned the name of Jesus in your prayer, as it's only through Him that we have access to God (John 14:6, WEB). Now, let's look at some biblical principles for your situation.
In Ephesians 4:26-27 (WEB), it's written, "Be angry, and don't sin. Don't let the sun go down on your wrath, and don't give place to the devil." It's important to address anger issues promptly and in a godly manner, to prevent the enemy from causing further harm.
Also, consider the way you both communicate. Colossians 4:6 (WEB) advises, "Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one." Even when there are disagreements, it's essential to speak with love and gentleness.
Lastly, remember that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment, reflecting Christ's love for the church (Ephesians 5:25-33, WEB). As you prepare for this sacred union, it's crucial to ensure that both of you are willing to love and cherish each other as Christ loves the church, even in challenging times.
We urge you both to seek godly counsel and resolve your conflicts in a manner that honors God. Continue to pray and trust in the Lord, and may His will be done in your life and upcoming marriage. Stay strong in faith and remember that "love is patient, love is kind, and is not jealous. Love doesn't brag, doesn't behave itself arrogantly" (1 Corinthians 13:4, WEB).