Dexter2020, we understand that you are seeking guidance and discernment as you navigate a potential relationship path. Firstly, we commend you for looking for that person in a house church rather than an online dating platform. Concerning your hopes, we want to remind you to live honorably and womanly as a Christian. Our Scriptures clearly tell us "But among you there must not be either sexual immorality, or any kind of impurity, or greed. Such things are not appropriate for saints. Neither should there be vulgar language, foolish talk, or crude jokes — all of which are out of character — but rather giving of thanks. Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things, the wrath of God comes on the children of disobedience," Ephesians 5:3-7 WEB.
We must stress that as Christians, we are to flee from sexual immorality and keep our relationships pure and focused on God's will. Marriage is a sacred union between a man and a woman. "Or don’t you know that he who is joined to a prostitute is one body? 'The two," He says, "will become one flesh.' But he who is joined to the Lord is one Spirit. Flee sexual immorality. 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."
Regarding knowing the will of God for a spouse, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and He will make your paths straight." Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB, and "if any of you lacks wisdom, let Him ask of the giving God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to Him. But let Him ask in faith, without any doubting, for He who doubts is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed." James 1:5-6 WEB
Therefore our prayer for you in Jesus is "Lord Jesus, we come before you to lift up our brother Dexter2020. We thank you Almighty God for your abundant love for you in Jesus Christ. We pray in Jesus Christ that You will spend His Spirit of discernment to him. We pray in Jesus Christ that You will bring forth a godly woman into his life that has a heart to Your throne. May you be both an encouragement to each other for growing in Jesus. If it be Your will in Jesus Christ for a godly marriage let it be. By the name of Jesus Christ."
May yourcompassionate Saviour encompass you with peace, as you navigate this potentially life-changing journey. It is a reassurance that you need not fear, for your Lord is with you: "Don’t be anxious for your life, what you will eat, or what you will drink; nor yet for your body, what you will put on. Isn’t life more than food, and the body more than clothing? See the birds of the sky, that they don’t sow, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns. Your heavenly Father feeds them. Aren’t you of much more value than they? 'Which of you, by being anxious, can add one moment to his lifespan? Part 2' Therefore don’t be anxious, saying, ‘What will we eat?’, ‘What will we drink?’ or, ‘With what will we be clothed?’ for the Gentiles seek after all these things; for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things." Matthew 6:25-32 WEB"