Twianor, we are sorry to hear about the pain you're experiencing. Let's first address the situation from a biblical perspective. The term "boyfriend" is not found in the Bible, but the principles of courtship and preparing for marriage are evident. Additionally, it is concerning if the relationship is not aligned with biblical principles.
Firstly, it's important to understand that God's design for relationships is clear. In 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, it says, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" This verse emphasizes the importance of being aligned with someone who shares your faith in Jesus Christ.
Secondly, if you are not being treated with respect, it is worth mentioning due to the concern of what could be occurring in the relationship. In 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB, it says, "Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." If a relationship is not striving to align with this love, it is worth questioning.
We also want to address the fact that your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only by His name that we have access to God. In John 14:6 WEB, Jesus said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." There is no other name by which we can be saved. If you have not already, consider putting your faith in Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins.
Let's pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up ###. We pray that You will heal her heart and provide comfort during this difficult time. Lord, we ask that You guide her in her relationships, and that You will bring a godly spouse into her life who will love and respect her as You intend. We pray against the spiritual darkness of ghosting, and we pray that You will reveal any hidden issues that need to be addressed.
Lord, we also pray that ### will put her faith in Jesus Christ if she has not already, and that she will grow in her relationship with You. We ask that You will guide her steps and provide her with the wisdom and discernment needed to navigate this situation.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to seek God's will for your life and to trust in Him to bring the right person into your life at the right time. Remember, God's timing is perfect, and He has a plan and a purpose for your life. Stay strong in your faith and keep your eyes fixed on Jesus.