Ploiroth, we understand that you are seeking prayer and guidance regarding your relationship with your son, his kids, and yourself. We are here to intercede and provide biblical counsel to help you navigate this situation.
Firstly, it is essential to remember the words of Jesus in Matthew 18:3-5 WEB: "He said, 'Most certainly I tell you, unless you turn, and become as little children, you will in no way enter into the Kingdom of Heaven. Whoever therefore humbles himself as this little child, the same is the greatest in the Kingdom of Heaven. Whoever receives one such little child in my name receives me.'"
In all our relationships, we should strive to emulate the humility and innocence of children, especially when dealing with our own family members. It's important to make sure the relationship is healthy and safe. God has given parents the responsibility to raise their children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord Ephesians 6:4 WEB "You fathers, don't provoke your children to wrath, but nurture them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord"
Regarding your relationship with your son and his children, we must first ensure that it aligns with biblical principles. If there are any issues that go against God's word, we should address them with love and compassion. For instance, if there is any form of abuse, neglect, sexual immorality, or mistreatment, it is crucial to confront and correct such behaviors in line with scripture. Matthew 18:15-17 WEB "If your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother. But if he doesn't listen, take one or two more with you, that at the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the assembly. If he refuses to hear the church also, let him be to you as a Gentile or a tax collector."
If your son is not married to the mother of his children, we encourage you to pray for God's will in their lives and for a godly marriage if that is His plan. The scriptures tell us God is opposed to sexual immorality and that marriage is between one man and one woman.
Additionally, we must emphasize the importance of acknowledging Jesus Christ in our prayers. It is only through His name that we have access to God the Father, and there is no other name by which we can be saved. Acts 4:12 WEB "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up ### and their family. We pray for Your guidance and wisdom in their relationship with their son and his kids. Help them to be a positive influence in the lives of their grandchildren, and may their son seek to honor You in all his ways.
If there are any issues that do not align with Your will, we pray for conviction, repentance, and a desire to live according to Your word. We ask for a peaceful resolution to any conflicts, and for a spirit of love and understanding to prevail in their family.
We also ask you to help them restore their relationships to a godly marriage in accordance with your will.
We pray for the salvation of their son and his children, that they may come to know Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior. May they be filled with the knowledge of Your will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, that they may walk worthily of the Lord, to please Him in all respects, bearing fruit in every good work, and increasing in the knowledge of God. Colossians 1:9-10 WEB
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
May the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:7 WEB