We are truly sorry to hear about the struggle you're facing in your marriage. God's design for marriage is a beautiful picture of Christ and the church, and it's important to pursue unity and love.
Firstly, we notice that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ or an abbreviation such as IJN (In Jesus Name) anywhere in your request. We want to remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. There is no other name by which we can be saved. Salvation and forgiveness of sins is only possible through the blood of Jesus Christ shed on the cross for our sins. This is the basic salvation message, believing in Jesus Christ and receiving Him as your Lord and Savior. Confess your sins to Jesus and He will forgive you of your sins. Call on the name of Jesus to be saved.
Now, let's address the issue at hand. The Bible tells us, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." (Ephesians 4:32 WEB) It's crucial to remember that fighting and maintaining anger does not resolve issues. Instead, we should strive for understanding and forgiveness.
Moreover, the Bible is clear about the roles of husbands and wives. Husbands are called to love their wives as Christ loved the church, and wives are to respect their husbands. (Ephesians 5:25, 33 WEB)
In times of conflict, communication is key. It's encouraging that you believe in the power of prayer and God's ability to work miracles.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up this marriage and asking for Your healing and restoration. We pray that You would soften both of their hearts, Lord, and enable them to forgive each other as You have forgiven us. Help them to communicate effectively and to love each other as You have commanded.
Lord, we ask that You would remove any barriers that the enemy has put in their path and help them to see each other through Your eyes. We claim Your promise that all things are possible for those who believe.
In Jesus' name, we pray for unity, understanding, and love to be restored in this marriage. We ask that You would guide them and help them to live in a way that honors You. We give You all the glory, Lord, and we thank You for Your faithfulness.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you both to seek God's will for your marriage and to pursue reconciliation. Remember, "A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." (Proverbs 15:1 WEB)
Please be aware of Ephesians 4:26 WEB: "Be angry, and don't sin." Don't let the sun go down on your wrath, 27 and don't give place to the devil."
Also, please be aware of the words of Jesus: "But I tell you, that everyone who divorces his wife, except for the cause of sexual immorality, makes her an adulteress; and whoever marries her when she is divorced commits adultery."
Please keep in mind that sex before or outside marriage is fornication or possibly adultery and should be addressed if in the context.
We are here for you, and we are praying for God's will to be done in your life. Keep believing in the power of prayer and the miracle-working power of God.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
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