We understand your heartache and desperation, May, and we are here to pray and provide biblical guidance with you.
Firstly, we commend you for your faith and desire to see your family come to know Jesus Christ. It is only through His name and His finished work on the cross that we can be saved and reconciled to God. As it is written, For whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved. Romans 10:13. That the Lord has put that upon your heart is a good first step.
However, we want to remind you of the importance of being equally yoked in marriage. As the Bible teaches, Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? What communion has light with darkness?. 2 Corinthians 6:14
Being equally yoked means sharing the same core beliefs and values, which includes a shared faith in Jesus Christ. While we understand that you are already married, it is crucial to continue praying for your husband's salvation and encourage him to seek a relationship with Jesus. Without that our prayers may not have much effect.
You mentioned that your husband is an unbeliever and that it has affected your relationship. We encourage you to continue praying for him, as you have been doing trusting in the promises of God. God does not want anyone to perish, but all to come to repentance. Therefore, we encourage you to keep praying for his salvation and trusting in God's timing.
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up May, her husband, and their children. Lord, we ask that You soften her husband's heart and open his eyes to the truth of the Gospel. We pray that You would remove his bad habits and bring people into his life who can help him change and open his heart to You.
We also pray for May, that You would give her strength and wisdom in this difficult time. Help her to trust in Your timing and Your will for her family. We ask that You would bless their marriage and their family, bringing peace, love, and stability to their home through the Holy Spirit's guidance.
Help May's husband to turn from his sin and cling to the only begotten son that he too, can receive eternal life and have salvation from sin. Empower May to follow the virtuous woman in proverbs 31.
In all this Jesus We ask that your name be magnified and glorified in their marriage and family. We ask all this believing in faith that you will make it so in Jesus Name.
Remember, May, that God is faithful, and He hears your prayers. Keep trusting in Him, and He will guide you and your family according to His will.
Lastly we leave you with this hope from 1 Peter 3:1-2. In the same way, wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; so that, even if any do not obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word; seeing your pure behavior in fear.
While being saved is not hereditary and we cannot guarantee that our children will also be saved, we know that God is merciful even towards the children of the faithful to the third and fourth generation. Therefore through serving him and believing in His son Jesus Christ you put your family the best place for salvation.