We understand that Dexter2020 is seeking prayer for Brian Phe, who has expressed a desire to remain single to serve the Lord more devotedly. Brian has also mentioned struggles with sexual desires and concerns about the pressures of relationships. We want to address this with biblical principles and compassion.
Firstly, we acknowledge Brian's desire to serve the Lord wholeheartedly. The Apostle Paul indeed spoke about the advantages of being single for ministry in 1 Corinthians 7:32-35 (WEB): "But I desire to have you to be free from cares. He who is unmarried is concerned for the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; but he who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife. There is also a difference between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman cares about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit. But she who is married cares about the things of the world—how she may please her husband. This I say for your own profit; not that I may ensnare you, but for that which is appropriate, and that you may attend to the Lord without distraction."
However, we must also address the struggle with sexual desires. Suppressing these desires entirely may not be biblical. As Paul says in 1 Corinthians 7:2 (WEB), "Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband." It is important to note that God designed sexual desires to be fulfilled within the context of marriage.
Regarding Brian's mental health concerns, we understand that relationships can bring additional stress. However, it's crucial to remember that God is our ultimate source of comfort and peace. As it says in Philippians 4:6-7 (WEB), "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."
Let us pray for Brian:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we lift up Brian Phe to you. We thank you for his heart to serve you and bring others to Christ. Lord, we ask for your guidance in his life. Help him to discern your will regarding his singleness and future relationships. If it is your will for him to remain single, grant him the strength and grace to do so. If it is your will for him to enter into a godly marriage, prepare him and his future spouse. Help him to manage his sexual desires in a way that honors you. Comfort him in his mental health struggles and remind him of your unfailing love and peace. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we encourage Brian to continue his walk with the Lord, trusting in His plan for his life. As Psalm 37:4-5 (WEB) says, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this:"