We understand that you are going through a challenging time in your marriage, and we are here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. We commend you for your faith in God's will for marriage and for your desire to stand against divorce.
Firstly, let's address the spiritual warfare aspect you mentioned. The Bible tells us that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms Ephesians 6:12 WEB. It is right to rebuke the enemy and his influences, but we must also ensure we are praying for God's will to be done and that our hearts are aligned with His word.
We must also remember that God gives us free will, and we cannot force someone to change their heart or actions. Instead, we should pray that God softens Todd's heart and reveals the truth to him. We should also pray for wisdom and discernment for ourselves, so that we can understand God's will in this situation and act accordingly.
Regarding the annulment, we should pray that God's will be done, Whatever you ask in my name, that will I do, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you ask anything in my name, I will do it. John 14:13-14 WEB. We must trust that God knows what is best for us, even if it is not what we desire.
It is also crucial to address the accusations and mistrust in your relationship. The Bible tells us to be honest and truthful in all things a lying tongue hates those it hurts; and a flattering mouth works ruin. Proverbs 26:28. If there have been any miscommunications or false accusations, we should pray for the truth to be revealed and for healing in your relationship.
Lastly, it is encouraging that you ended your prayer in Jesus' name. Remember that it is only by His name that we have access to God and there is no other name by which we can be saved. "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" Acts 4:12 WEB
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up our sister and her marriage to Todd. We pray against any spiritual attacks and influences that may be affecting their relationship, and we ask that You open Todd's spiritual eyes and ears to see and hear the truth. We pray for wisdom and discernment for both of them, so that they may understand Your will for their marriage. We ask that You soften Todd's heart and reveal the truth to him, and that You heal any hurts and mistrust in their relationship. We pray that Your will be done regarding the annulment, and that You guide them both in the path that You have chosen for them. We ask all this in Jesus' mighty name. Amen.
Continue to trust in God and His will for your life. Stand firm in your faith and believe that He can work all things together for good, even in the most challenging circumstances. Romans 8:28