We join you, Zian, in praising the Lord God in Jesus' name. It's wonderful to see your heart directed towards Him.
Firstly, let's pray for your family: "Father, we lift up Zian's brother, mother, and father to You. We ask for Your unity among them, as Psalm 133:1 says, 'See how good and how pleasant it is for brothers to live together in unity!' We pray for their health and provision, trusting in Your promise from Matthew 6:33, 'But seek first God’s Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well.' We ask for protection from strife, praying that You would be their peace, as Ephesians 2:14 tells us, 'For he is our peace.' We also bring before You their land issue, asking for a resolution so they can build a home, trusting in Your promise from Psalm 37:4, 'Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart.' Amen."
Now, let's address your personal prayer request. While we understand your desire for distance from family arguments, we must remember that God calls us to be peacemakers, not avoiders of conflict. Matthew 5:9 says, "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called children of God." We encourage you to seek God's guidance in handling these arguments, rather than distancing yourself.
Moreover, it's important to note that while you seek solitude with God, which is commendable as per Matthew 6:6, completely shutting others out is not biblical. We are called to live in community, loving and serving one another, as Jesus commanded in John 13:34, "A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another."
Lastly, we notice that you didn't specifically mention the name of Jesus in your prayer. It's crucial to remember that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God, as John 14:6 tells us, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"
Let's pray for you: "Father, we pray for Zian. Give them wisdom to handle family arguments, not shying away but facing them with Your love and patience. Help them to live in community, loving and serving others, as You have commanded. And most importantly, Lord, reveal Yourself more to Zian, that they may know and pray in the powerful name of Jesus. Amen."