Zian, we join you in praising the Lord God in Jesus' name. It's wonderful to start with praise, for God is indeed worthy. In your request, you've asked about the requirements to lead a normal life. We want to remind you that God's desire for us is not merely to live a "normal" life, but to live an abundant life in Christ (John 10:10, WEB).
Firstly, it's crucial to ensure that we are in a right relationship with God. This comes through believing in Jesus Christ. As it is written, "Because if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation" (Romans 10:9-10, WEB). If you haven't yet taken this step, we encourage you to do so today.
Secondly, to live an abundant life, we should strive to live according to God's word. Jesus said, "If you love me, keep my commandments" (John 14:15, WEB). His commandments include loving God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength, and loving our neighbor as ourselves (Luke 10:27, WEB).
Let's pray together:
"Father in heaven, we come before you in Jesus' name, praising you for your goodness and mercy. We ask that you reveal yourself to Zian in a deeper way, and guide them in the path of righteousness. Help them to understand your word and to live according to your will. Provide for their every need, as you have promised in your word. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Remember, God has a unique path for each of us. Living a life aligned with His will is the most fulfilling and "normal" life we could ask for. Continue to seek Him, and His will shall be revealed to you.