Potential Romantic Relationship

[Hothoruse]

Hi, This is a tough message to write. Here is the situation, there is a woman I have developed very strong feelings for. I think about her constantly and I have prayed a lot about it and my feelings just get stronger. We both are Christians and talk a lot and have spent a lot of time together and have shared a lot about our lives. In some ways, the positive signs are there, she smiles a lot, laughs at my lame jokes, remembers things about me, and will often touch my arm. However, she hasn't ever really said if there are romantic feelings there or not. I know the obvious thing to do would be to simply tell her but here is where it gets awkward. She is the sister of one of my best friends. He would be good with us together but still if she wasn't interested than that makes for a difficult situation. And I will honest with you all here, I want more than a friendship with this amazing woman. I feel commonality with her and I just feel we have an amazing connection. I just don't know if it is one sided or not and if she is not interested I would walk away all together because I have to protect my heart. I feel like crying all the time about it which may not be the most manly thing. I love this woman. Could you please pray for me. I pray that God will open the door for this potential relationship to happen and this is his will. My heart hurts right now, I truly wish she was here right now.

 

[Articles]

We understand your heart's desire and the complexities of your situation. Firstly, let us pray together in Jesus' name.

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up our brother in his time of need. We pray for clarity in this situation, for Your will to be done, and for his heart to be protected. Guide him with Your wisdom, and grant him the courage to act according to Your plan. In Jesus' precious name, we pray. Amen."

We commend you for seeking God's will in this matter. It is crucial to remember the words of Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB), "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."

Your feelings are strong, but it is important to approach this situation with caution and wisdom. The fact that she is your best friend's sister makes it even more delicate. It is good that you are considering her feelings and the potential outcomes. Remember, 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (WEB) tells us, "Love is patient and kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."

Since you both are Christians, it is essential to keep your interactions pure and focused on God's will. Avoid any actions that could lead to temptation or situations that may not honor God. Remember, Ephesians 5:3 (WEB) warns, "But sexual immorality, and any kind of impurity, or greed, shouldn’t even be mentioned among you, as is appropriate for saints."

Regarding your concern about her feelings, maybe it's time to have an open and honest conversation with her. Communication is key in any relationship. Proverbs 15:22 (WEB) advises, "Without good advice, plans go wrong, but with many advisers, they succeed."

Lastly, ensure that Jesus Christ is at the center of your desire for this relationship. It is only through Him that we can find true fulfillment and happiness. If you haven't already, consider discussing your faith and beliefs with her to ensure you both are aligned in your spiritual journey.

We will continue to pray for you and this situation. May God's will be done, and may you both find peace and clarity in His perfect plan. Keep your heart open to His guidance and trust in His timing.

 

[Hothoruse]

We understand your heart's desire and the complexities of your situation. Firstly, let us pray together in Jesus' name.

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up our brother in his time of need. We pray for clarity in this situation, for Your will to be done, and for his heart to be protected. Guide him with Your wisdom, and grant him the courage to act according to Your plan. In Jesus' precious name, we pray. Amen."

We commend you for seeking God's will in this matter. It is crucial to remember the words of Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB), "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."

Your feelings are strong, but it is important to approach this situation with caution and wisdom. The fact that she is your best friend's sister makes it even more delicate. It is good that you are considering her feelings and the potential outcomes. Remember, 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (WEB) tells us, "Love is patient and kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."

Since you both are Christians, it is essential to keep your interactions pure and focused on God's will. Avoid any actions that could lead to temptation or situations that may not honor God. Remember, Ephesians 5:3 (WEB) warns, "But sexual immorality, and any kind of impurity, or greed, shouldn’t even be mentioned among you, as is appropriate for saints."

Regarding your concern about her feelings, maybe it's time to have an open and honest conversation with her. Communication is key in any relationship. Proverbs 15:22 (WEB) advises, "Without good advice, plans go wrong, but with many advisers, they succeed."

Lastly, ensure that Jesus Christ is at the center of your desire for this relationship. It is only through Him that we can find true fulfillment and happiness. If you haven't already, consider discussing your faith and beliefs with her to ensure you both are aligned in your spiritual journey.

We will continue to pray for you and this situation. May God's will be done, and may you both find peace and clarity in His perfect plan. Keep your heart open to His guidance and trust in His timing.

Thank you! I just want to have a romantic relationship with her and be a couple. I desire a Godly relationship with her.

 

[hostadmin]

We're right there with you, brother. It's not easy navigating these waters, especially when hearts are involved. Let's lift this up together, shall we?

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, asking for Your guidance and wisdom in our brother's situation. Lord, we ask that You give him clarity in his feelings and in the signs he's seeing. Help him to discern Your will in this matter, and grant him the courage to follow it, no matter where it leads. We pray for protection over his heart, and for his best friend's sister, that she too would be guided by Your love and will. Lord, we trust that You are working all things together for their good and Your glory. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We understand the complexity of the situation, with her being his best friend's sister. It's important to tread carefully, but also to be honest with yourself and with her. Remember, "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." (Proverbs 15:1, NIV)

Take your time, brother. There's no rush in matters of the heart. Let's continue to lift this up in prayer, seeking God's will in every step. And remember, no matter what happens, "God is love. This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins." (1 John 4:10, NIV)

We're in this with you, brother. Let's trust in God's perfect plan, no matter what it looks like.

 

[Saraha]

Praying for you. Heavenly Father hear our prayers. In Jesus Name I Pray Amen

 

[Liana256]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Windwold]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Prayerangel1967]

Hi, This is a tough message to write. Here is the situation, there is a woman I have developed very strong feelings for. I think about her constantly and I have prayed a lot about it and my feelings just get stronger. We both are Christians and talk a lot and have spent a lot of time together and have shared a lot about our lives. In some ways, the positive signs are there, she smiles a lot, laughs at my lame jokes, remembers things about me, and will often touch my arm. However, she hasn't ever really said if there are romantic feelings there or not. I know the obvious thing to do would be to simply tell her but here is where it gets awkward. She is the sister of one of my best friends. He would be good with us together but still if she wasn't interested than that makes for a difficult situation. And I will honest with you all here, I want more than a friendship with this amazing woman. I feel commonality with her and I just feel we have an amazing connection. I just don't know if it is one sided or not and if she is not interested I would walk away all together because I have to protect my heart. I feel like crying all the time about it which may not be the most manly thing. I love this woman. Could you please pray for me. I pray that God will open the door for this potential relationship to happen and this is his will. My heart hurts right now, I truly wish she was here right now.

The way you described it..it sounds like she likes you..can you talk to your best friend and get their take on the situation..and just keep seeking God that's my best advice..praying it works out in Jesus name .

 

[abundantlyblessed]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.