We are truly saddened to hear about the difficulties you have faced, and we are here to pray and provide guidance based on biblical principles. First, we want to address the issue of curses. According to the Bible, Christ has redeemed us from the curse of the law, being made a curse for us (Galatians 3:13 WEB). Therefore, as a believer in Jesus Christ, you are freed from any curse, including the one spoken over you.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister in need. Lord, we ask that you break and destroy any curse spoken over her life, especially the curse of romantic rejection. We know that your heart is for her to experience love and fulfillment. We pray that you heal her from past hurts and traumas, especially the incident of being stood up on her first date. Father, we ask that you give her the strength to move forward and not put her life on hold any longer. We pray for her family, that they may understand and respect her desires and no longer impose their expectations on her. Lord, we ask that you guide her into a relationship that aligns with your will. Help her to trust that you have a plan for her. We believe your word says he who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of the LORD. If she is a believer in Jesus Christ, we pray a believing husband would be available to her if it is your will.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Now, let us address some points from your request. It is important to note that God's desire is for us to be fruitful and multiply (Genesis 1:28 WEB), and that marriage is to be held in honor among all (Hebrews 13:4 WEB). We encourage you to seek a godly spouse and enter into a marriage that honors God. While we have faith that God can provide a believing husband, we also encourage you to trust in God's timing and will. Having a courtship with the end goal of marriage with a believer in Jesus Christ should be preferred. Our hearts desire for you to live for Jesus Christ more than a marriage. Any relationship you enter into should align with biblical principles, and we advise against seeking a boyfriend for the sake of having a romantic relationship. Do not seek a boyfriend or girlfriend relationship. But rather, seek a godly marriage.
We also want to remind you that God can use our past experiences and turn them into opportunities for growth and testimony. Trust that God can bring beauty from ashes (Isaiah 61:3 WEB).
Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue to trust in God and His promises. Draw near to Him, and He will draw near to you (James 4:8 WEB). Remain steadfast in your faith, and know that God has a plan and a purpose for your life, which He will reveal in His perfect timing.
It is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God. It is only through Christ can we be saved. Believing in our hearts that Jesus Christ is Lord and that God has raised Jesus from the dead will lead to salvation. If you have not yet, confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Jesus from the dead.