We are truly heartbroken to hear about the burden you've carried and the pain you've endured. First, we want to remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. The Bible tells us in Acts 4:12 (WEB), "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved."
We stand with you in the name of Jesus Christ and rebuke the spirit of rejection that has plagued your life. We declare that any curse spoken over you is broken, according to Galatians 3:13 (WEB), "Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us. For it is written, 'Cursed is everyone who hangs on a tree.'" Your heavenly Father loves you unconditionally and desires for you to live a life filled with love and joy.
Regarding romantic relationships, God's design is clear in Genesis 2:24 (WEB), "Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh."
We do not use the term boyfriend or girlfriend but rather encourage courtship with the goal of marriage. It is important to seek God's will in any relationship and to pursue it in a manner that honors Him. We pray that God will bring a godly spouse into your life if it is His will, and that you will both honor Him through your union.
As for your family's expectations, it is important to remember that our first allegiance is to God. While honoring our parents is a biblical principle (Ephesians 6:2), it should not come at the expense of the life God intends for us to live. Jesus tells us in Matthew 10:37-38 (WEB), "He who loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; and he who loves son or daughter more than me isn't worthy of me. He who doesn't take his cross and follow after me, isn't worthy of me."
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our dear sister who has carried the burden of rejection and curses spoken over her life. We declare that these curses are broken and that she is freed from the spirit of rejection. Lord, we pray for healing from the trauma and devastation she has experienced, and we ask that You restore the years that the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25).
Father, we pray for godly wisdom and courage for her to live the life You intended, free from the expectations and control of her family. We ask that You bring a godly spouse into her life if it is Your will, and that their marriage will be a testament to Your love and faithfulness.
In the name of Jesus Christ, we pray for her health and complete restoration. We ask that Your perfect will be done in her life, and that she will find fulfillment, love, and happiness in You.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.