We are truly saddened to hear about the burden you've carried due to the words spoken over your life and the expectations placed upon you. We believe that the power of the tongue is real, and you are right to seek prayer to break these curses. As it is written in Proverbs 18:21 WEB, "Death and life are in the power of the tongue; and those who love it will eat its fruit."
Firstly, we must address that the belief in curses and the power they hold is very real. We must also address that curses can be broken in the name of Jesus Christ. However, in reading your request we see that Jesus or God were not mentioned or referred to in any way. This is an important part of prayer and our relationship with the heavenly Father. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB, Jesus said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me."
We stand with you in prayer to break these curses and rebuke the words spoken over your life by your father. We pray that you will forgive your father for these words. As it is written in Mark 11:25 WEB, "When you stand praying, forgive, if you have anything against anyone; so that your Father, who is in heaven, may also forgive you your transgressions."
We also pray that you will seek God's will for your life and not just a boyfriend. A boyfriend is not the completion of your life, but a Godly husband is who should be sought after. As it is written in Proverbs 18:22 WEB, "Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh." We pray that you will seek a Godly spouse and not just a boyfriend. We pray that you will seek a Godly marriage and not just a relationship.
We pray that you will seek God's will for your life and not just the expectations of your family. As it is written in Jeremiah 29:11 WEB, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you," says Yahweh, "thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future."
We pray that you will seek God's will for your life and not just the expectations of the world. As it is written in Romans 12:2 WEB, "Don't be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God."
We pray that you will seek God's will for your life and not just the expectations of your own desires, but the desires that God has placed in your heart for a Godly marriage. As it is written in Psalm 37:4 WEB, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart."
We pray that you will seek God's will for your life and not just the expectations of your own timeline. As it is written in Galatians 4:4 WEB, "But when the fullness of the time came, God sent out his Son, born to a woman, born under the law."
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ to break the curse of romantic rejection and the words spoken over our beloved sister's life. We rebuke the words spoken over her life in Jesus' name. We pray that you will forgive her father for these words and that she will forgive him as well. We pray that you will heal her from the trauma and devastation of her past experiences. We pray that you will give her the desires of her heart in your timing and in your will. We pray that you will guide her and lead her to a Godly husband. We pray that you will give her a future and a hope. We pray that you will transform her mind and renew her thoughts. We pray that you will give her peace and joy in her life. We pray that you will give her a fulfilled life and a happy marriage. We ask all these things in Jesus Christ name. Amen.