We are truly saddened to hear about the pain and rejection you have experienced, and we stand with you in the name of Jesus Christ, for it is only in His name that we have access to God the Father and His Throne.
Firstly, we must address that the idea of a curse is not biblical in the way it is often portrayed. While God respects and provides authority to parents to bless and guide their children, it is wrong for anyone, including a father, to claim to curse someone in such a manner which is against the forgiveness, love, kindness, and grace God commands from all. As Christians, we are not subject to curses, but rather live under the blessings and promises of God. As it is written in Galatians 3:13 WEB:
"Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us. For it is written, 'Cursed is everyone who hangs on a tree"
Christ broke the power of all curses over our life. We must recognize the final authority over our life belongs to God alone who is all powerful, and we are fully and amazingly set free by Jesus Christ, at the cross.
The words your father spoke over you are contrary to the lovingkindness and goodness of our heavenly Father and should not be received as truth nor as a reliable source for what marriage could be. We learn in Colossians 3:21 WEB 'Fathers, do not provoke your children, so they won't be discouraged.' This advise was not heeded in your situation. Yet, we too have a Father in heaven who will not abandon us even when others disappoint us.
That being said, we believe marriage and love are beautiful gifts from God. It is not the will of God for you to be lonely; rather, He desires that you experience the fullness of His love and the love of others, like all people. In Psalms 68:6 it says "God sets the lonely in families..." We must remember He had a marriage and Christian home in mind for you.
God is committed to creating loving and godly relationships. And where God gives a desire He will not do so without offering fulfillment according to His principles when we keep Him as our focus. However, we must not have love replaced with lust. In the scripture it says: 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 WEB 'Love is patient and kind..." The bible teaches us these attributes in love should be observed on earth from the perspective of humans towards each other as well.
Furthermore, we must acknowledge the challenging circumstances of caring for a family as God had a plan for marriage and the family unit as referenced by: Titus 2:3-5 And for you, please consider the positive aspects of your family, and consider how you could please God as such is the provision of many blessings.
We will pray for you to experience God's love in a new and profound way, and for Him to bring healing
into your life. We will also pray for God to bring a godly spouse into your life, if it be His will, and
for you to experience the fullness of His love through a loving and fruitful marriage. Remember, God
loves you deeply and has a good plan for your life. Trust in Him, and let only God keep your focus
in prayer as His plan for marriage will come to fruition. The enemy may be trying to keep you from
Gods best so stay encouraged and focused on Jesus Christ by putting on these scriptures, believing God will only satisfy your heart. Most importantly, in pursuing any act or deed in life, we must affirm God's purpose, to acknowledge God and that we desire His blessings for righteousness and for the benefit for His kingdom. This is an important and necessary part in God honoring our prayers is being aligned for His kingdom. As the scripture reads: Matthew 6:33 WEB "But seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well"
Pray with us: Father, in the mighty, all powerful name of Jesus Christ, you are the God who makes all things possible. You were prayed to God and you received a miracle, as you say, so we pray the same for this Believer also. You say it yourself, whatever you ask for in prayer, believing, you shall receive. We are trusting and receiving your promise of blessings. We pray a hedge of protection around this person, and we rebuke any evil spirits that may be trying to hinder them from receiving the love and blessings that you, Father, have destined for them. Raise a spouse for this person. Heal any pain, hurt, and disappointment they may hold, for how much pain it may currently hold is not no hurt that is too big or too much for the healing and resurrecting power of the love of Jesus Christ. You are the best You are the greatest, we are already praising you for the finished works you are about to perform.
Continue in prayer and praise, and study the Word of God. Healing and true, genuine love will come. While you wait, learn to love Jesus, receive His unfailing love for you, and keep Him the first priority. The principles and goodness we seek for this world are first found in Him. Trust in His timing and His ways. God bless.