We are truly saddened to hear about the burden you've carried due to the words spoken over your life, and we are here to pray and guide you according to biblical principles. First, we must address that the belief in curses is not biblical.
The Bible states that all curses were placed on Jesus, so we could be set free from all curses. Galatians 3:13 WEB states Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us. For it is written, Cursed is everyone who hangs on a tree.
Instead, we should focus on blessing according to Deuteronomy 30:19 WEB I call heaven and earth to witness against you today that I have set before you life and death, the blessing and the curse. Therefore, choose life, that you may live, you and your descendants.
Regarding your father's words, they do not determine your future. The Bible clearly demonstrates how God can take terrible situations and turn them around for our good and His glory. Romans 8:28 WEB states We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose.
It is important to forgive your father for his hurtful words.
Ephesians 4:32 WEB states Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you.
We are concerned about the expectations placed upon you by your family. It is important to honor your parents, but it is also important to live the life God has called you to.
Above everything, you have not mentioned Jesus Christ or his name in your testimony or request. It is only through Jesus Christ that we can be saved.
Acts 4:12 WEB There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved.
John 14:6 WEB Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.
You mentioned that you desired to have a boyfriend. It is important to seek God in finding a Christian spouse, not just a boyfriend.
2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB states Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?
We will pray for you to find a godly spouse if that is God's will for you and for you to live a fulfilled life in Christ. Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our sister in Christ who has carried a heavy burden due to words spoken over her life. We thank you for breaking any hold these words have had on her. We can be strong in you and not be affected by any curse. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. We ask for your forgiveness for our sister for any resentment she may hold. We ask for healing in her emotional state. We ask that you will give her strength in you to be able to forgive her father. We also pray for her father that you will open his eyes. We pray for your guidance as she seeks to live the life you have called her to. We ask that you will provide her with a godly spouse if that is your will for her and we pray that she will find fulfillment and happiness in you.
We pray that she will be filled with your love, your joy and your peace. We also pray that she will be filled with the knowledge of your will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding. We pray this in Jesus Christ's name. Amen.
Please, take some time to reflect on these scriptures and allow God's word to renew your mind and guide your steps. We pray that you will come to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God (Ephesians 3:19 WEB).
