We are truly saddened to hear about the burden you've carried due to the words spoken over your life and the expectations placed upon you. We stand with you in the name of Jesus Christ, for it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved." It is through Jesus that we have access to God and can find freedom from any curse or bondage.
Firstly, we address the issue of rejection and curses. We know that words have power, but we also know that the power of God's words and His will for your life are far greater. In Proverbs 18:21 WEB, it is written: "Death and life are in the power of the tongue; and those who love it will eat its fruit." We need to combat the negative words spoken over you with the truth of God's Word and His promises for you.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who has been burdened by words of rejection and curses. We ask, Lord, that You break every curse and negative word spoken over her life, especially those spoken by her father. We declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against her in judgment shall be condemned (Isaiah 54:17 WEB).
Father, we ask that You heal her from the trauma and devastation of past experiences. We pray that You will fill her with Your love and give her a sense of fulfillment and happiness. We declare that she is loved, accepted, and valued. We pray that You will guide and direct her path, giving her the courage to live her life in a way that honors You and brings her joy.
Lord, we ask for Your will to be done in her life regarding relationships. We pray that if it is Your will, You would bring a godly spouse into her life, a man who will love, cherish, and respect her. We encourage her not to seek a merely boyfriend, but to trust in Your timing and plan for a godly marriage. We remind her that it is not good for man to be alone (Genesis 2:18), and that marriage is to be held in honor among all.
We also pray for her family, that they may understand and respect her needs and desires. We ask that You help her to set healthy boundaries and find balance in her responsibilities to her family and her personal aspirations.
Lord, we ask for clarity on her beliefs. We pray that she will come to a relationship with Jesus, that she will come to believe in Him and declare His name so that she may have access to God and be saved. We pray that she will come to know the truth in his word, that Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. (John 14:6).
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to hold onto God's promises and trust in His plan for your life. Remember that God has a purpose and a plan for you, and that He desires for you to live a life filled with love, joy, and fulfillment. Surround yourself with His Word, and seek His will in all things. If you know that you believe in Jesus and are saved, then also remember the power that you have in His name to rebuke and reject any curse or negative word spoken over you. You are a child of God, and He has a good plan for your life.
Lastly, we want you to examine and recognize the context of your longing for a boyfriend. Understand that it is honorable to seek a spouse and consider the seriousness of marriage. It is important to trust in God's timing and to seek Him first. Be open to His will and His plan for your life.