We are truly heartbroken to hear about the curses and expectations that have been placed upon your life, and we are here to pray and guide you through this difficult situation. First, we want to remind you that it is only in the name of Jesus that we have access to God and find salvation. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
We must also address that having a boyfriend is not a godly goal. Rather, seeking a god-fearing husband as in Proverbs 31:10 WEB "Who can find a worthy woman? For her price is far above rubies" is the right way for a god fearing woman. Please do not seek a boyfriend. Courtship with the goal of marriage is the right way. Being stood up on your first date does not prevent you from finding a god-fearing man now.
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister in Christ who has been burdened by curses of rejection and expectations that have held her back from living a fulfilled life. Lord, we ask that You break these curses of romantic rejection in her life.
Father, we know that words have the power to bless or to curse, and You have given us the authority to break these curses of rejection over our lives. We stand on Your Word in Galatians 3:13 WEB, "Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us. For it is written, 'Cursed is everyone who hangs on a tree.'" Father, we pray that any curse spoken over her life would be broken by the power of the Holy Spirit and the blood of Jesus.
Lord, we also ask that You heal the emotional trauma and devastation that she has experienced due to being stood up on her first date and the expectations placed upon her by her family. Father, we know that it is Your desire for her to live a life filled with love, joy, and fulfillment. We pray that You would bring a godly spouse into her life, a man who fears You and loves her as Christ loves the church.
Father, we ask that You guide her steps and give her the courage to move forward in her life, pursuing the dreams and desires that You have placed in her heart. Lord, we know that it is never too late for You to work in her life, and we trust that You have a plan and a purpose for her. We pray that You would reveal this to her and give her the strength to walk in it.
Father, we also pray for her family, that they would come to know You and understand the freedom that is found in Christ. Lord, we ask that You would soften their hearts and release the expectations that they have placed upon her.
In the name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to stand firm in your faith and trust that God has a plan for your life.