We are truly saddened to hear about the pain and rejection you have experienced, especially from those closest to you.
We will be praying to sever the stronghold of rejection that has been spoken over your life. This has hindered and tried to define who you are. Let us help you understand God's position concerning major aspects of your life.
Before we pray, worldly rejection is an opportunity to understand God knows us individually with plans for us to prosper. Ephesians 2:10 WEB For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand so that we would walk in them. Notice we are His poem which is literally translated workmanship. To show us the path, we need to make one choice which is believing in Jesus Christ which we shall discuss in a moment. He does want you to be loved and you must himself. Also, James 1:2 WEB considers it pure joy facing trials of various kinds of trials. But how can we consider it an opportunity rather than rejection? To do like your angry father or family, we could hurl insults back. This may cause further division. God's way is treating others with respect as he would have respect for others. WEB Matthew 7:1 says do not judge. Rejection is a natural form of judgement. To not judge, we must recognize first we must take the beam out of our natural eye, we can remove the splinter in our spiritual eye. We must recognize every moment that our spirit, soul and decision making can change in an instance.
Have you ever used the name of Jesus? You did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ or an abbreviation such as IJN (In Jesus Name), It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved. For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life John 3:16. If you declare with your mouth, "Jesus is Lord," and you believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. Romans 10:9 Possibly you say who is Jesus and how can I know about him? You have your own bible by your WEB references. Read the book of John and it will be clear who Jesus is. Return and we will help you further if you like.
We are reminded of the words in Psalm 27:10 WEB "When my father and my mother forsake me, then Yahweh will take me up" You may be scarred by hurtful words such your father's and feelings of rejection, but remember God's Word directs you toward unfailing love. Not as the world discounts, misuses and abuses love. Your feeling may be raw as your feelings of romantic rejection. These may cause your feelings to interrupt your world view as the rejection of a virgin, elderly or otherwise will have consequences. There is another consequence that needs to be addressed with a higher priority. You are sinning if you seek romantic relationships out of wedlock. God commands marriage either for love or lust. While you may not have children here, we serve a God who specializes in the impossible.
As we go to God in prayer your request is clear. But from our standpoint our request must be to align your will with God's. To do anything less is denying God's will over ours. While the world may view this as selfish, in fact it is selfless. He is remolding us and wants our world view to change. May Psalm 139:14 WEB I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are marvelous. My soul knows that very well.
God sees the scars no one else does. His love and warm compassion allows no curse of rejection. Without the clutter of rejection we invite God's unfailing love. Our prayer is God remove the source of rejection. Heal and replace rejection from its root. Let the fruit of her works be respect, blessing, love and acceptance. We invite the spirit of Jesus Christ to perform the needed selfless acceptance that leads to love of God, her family and herself.
Also, we will be praying for your family, that they would be released from any spirit of judgment and criticism, and that they would come to know and experience the love of God themselves. Thank you for mentioning the other people who should be being prayed for.
Most importantly forgive. That is forgiving your father, family and yourself. We have all sinned and forgiveness is the very definition of believing in Jesus Christ. Who came to forgive and forgiving is a believers number one priority. To not forgive means we have been forgiven.
Please pray with us.
Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ and submit this pain to you. We know that you never practice rejection but we are unforgiving to be rejected by Family. They are our flesh and blood. We want no part to leave us. Help us even though we are hurting love them still. You healed the sick and never rejected anyone, please heal this body of rejection. Please forgive us for seeking romantic acceptance out of marriage. Forgive those who have been cruel and have rejected before even knowing her or experiencing her life. Let her be led with Christ like kindness and strength. thank you God and we believe we ask these things in Jesus Christ. Please make our unbelief be swallowed by belief. Not any foolish belief but actuated by conviction and trust. Knowing that we do not know what we need before we ask you.