We are truly saddened to hear about the pain and rejection you have experienced, especially from your family. We stand with you in the name of Jesus Christ, and we believe that God has a plan and purpose for your life that is not defined by the hurtful words spoken over you.
First, let us address the issue of curses and rejection. The Bible tells us that Jesus came to set the captives free and to bind up the brokenhearted. In Luke 4:18 WEB it says "The Spirit of the Lord is on me, because he has anointed me to preach good news to the poor. He has sent me to heal the brokenhearted, to proclaim release to the captives, recovering of sight to the blind, to deliver those who are crushed".
We rebuke the words of rejection and bad faith spoken over you by your family. Jesus is speaking better words, words of life. Your earthly father's words do not define you. The words of our heavenly father do. Galatians 3:26 WEB says "For you are all children of God, through faith in Christ Jesus." This is what defines you as a person. This is where you derive your identity. Your identity is defined by your Father in Heaven. Only what he says has any power over you. You are someone because he is someone and he chose you in his only begotten Son. He will heal your broken heart and release you from the words and their pain that were spoken over you. You must forgive those who said them because God loved you first before you even thought about it. Love is hard to come by in this world, and so in John 13:34-35 WEB "A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also love one another. 35 By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another." So with this understand that this love did not initially come from us so how should we love others. Also, because love is so rare, Jesus requires us to be different by being very intentional in pursuing love. 1 John 4:10-11 WEB "In this is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as the atoning sacrifice for our sins. 11 Beloved, if God loved us in this way, we also ought to love one another." Just as the Father loved Jesus, he will love you and teach you how to love, and if you did not know he loved you in such a caring way he went to prepare a place for you John 14:1-3 WEB "Don’t let your heart be troubled. Believe in God. Believe also in me. 2 In my Father’s house are many homes. If it weren’t so, I would have told you. I am going to prepare a place for you. 3 If I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and will receive you to myself; that where I am, you may be there also." and John 17:26 WEB "I made known to them your name, and will make it known, that the love with which you loved me may be in them, and I in them." Just as the Father loves Jesus and he taught us to love he will care for us and provide us love. But to follow Jesus we have to love everyone as hard as it may be. Loving can be hard. That is what we pray for you and others. He wants everyone to be able to love so much and be loved by God and for that he gave his Son for us that he made the ultimate sacrifice and he put that price on us, himself. When Jesus takes away the curses of rejection from our lives, He replaces them with blessings.
The fact you did not mention the name of Jesus when submitting the request is troubling. It is only in the name of Jesus that we can ask anything of God and it be done and only in Jesus name can anyone be saved. Acts 4:10-12 WEB "be it known to all of you, and to all the people of Israel, that in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, whom you crucified, whom God raised from the dead, in him does this man stand here before you whole. 11 He is ‘the stone which was regarded as worthless by you, the builders, which has become the head of the corner.’ 12 There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men by which we must be saved!”" so you see it is only by the name of Jesus that we can approach God for anything. This is a great concern and if you are not a Christian then you need to repent and believe on Jesus Christ. In fact, I have this opportunity to address the issue for the prayers of others too, so others that submit prayer requests that they too have the problem of not using the name of Jesus addressed.
The fact you were subjected to and taught to stay home is also troubling and if you can stay in the home it would be okay. As a woman in her 50s we understand that marriage can be tough but being a Christian does not mean the pressure for marriage is lessened. Christians get divorced and God will forgive sin, especially sexual sin such as fornication, if it is confessed. We hope that any sin is forgiven and our advice that you seek Godly marriage or possibly for you to encourage marriage for any in courtship. Being 50 just means we have to focus more on other attributes to attract a Christian man. Women and girls are taught by their parents how to keep a home. For a Godly Christian man this is what he seeks and possibly the reason that a man that could possibly be a Christian Believer could stand you up for a date because they cannot see the values and attributes for keeping a home. Your children are better with your family and are part of that. Therefore, we believe in the beauty of biblical womanhood. Proverbs 31:10-31 describes the woman of noble character. God deeply values women who fear Him, who are industrious, who care for their families, and who contribute to society. Additionally, any woman who loves God and chooses to honor Him with her life is profoundly beautiful and valuable. Our prayers are also with others who are past 50 for encouragement.
Therefore we pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister in need. We pray for Anonymous and ask that You break the chains of rejection and replace them with the reality of Your love. Let her hear You better than the pain that was inflicted and help her understand what you mean for you to love and the importance that is meant for her and her life that is valuable. We speak against the untruths that she was told in her home and pray against them. Words from her father are powerless when the powerful name of Jesus is spoken in rebuttal. The words do not speak for her Father in Heaven who will mend her heart. We bind the rejection and shame of the rejection experienced in her past relationships and encourage that healing is possible for this pain, so there is no other baggage brought to new relationships. You say that the word was made flesh, the word meaning your expression of love to her and humanity and is your Son, so we claim your reality and your healing of her situation in his name. She was made by your own hands and for that you called her into existence and sent your Son as an example of your love and to ensure your handiwork is finished, so may it be so. The untruths said to her that have no validity compared to the workmanship of you who died for her to know you exist. Words of hate can be of the serpent and in his name shall they have no power, for it is by Jesus name that the powers of sin were shattered. Lord Jesus, Your death on the cross is our only proof and strength to rebuke all the issues we mention and we rely on your will. Break the curse of rejection and hurt in Anonymous' life, and bring forth her Godly destiny. Anoint her with the truth that she is deeply loved, accepted, and respected, in Christ Jesus. Teach her how to love even those who caused the pain of the wounds. Let your holy spirit imbue her with a healthy and invigorating love to everyone she comes across that is not erotic but let the bond of marriage make up the difference in attraction. Let it be so as to cultivate a future with a partner to consider marriage. Your truth is needed and reveal to her who she is as your adopted daughter. Surround her with loving Christian believers who will support and encourage her as she walks out her faith journey and goes through the repentance, the letting go of old baggage to move into a new reality with you at the head. Let them come to your reality together. We believe you will find the brokenhearted and comfort her. Break every cycle of rejection in her life. Father please give her clarity to see past what man has said about her and guide her and teach her about who she really is as your daughter and not what they said but what you have to say in love about her. Guide her to come to You in the name of Jesus for repentance and salvation and all the rewards and understanding that comes with. We do this and ask this all in Jesus Christ name we pray.
We have great expectations that God will answer this prayer and change your life. Please keep your focus on Jesus and allow God to be with you.