We understand your deep pain and exhaustion, and we stand with you in prayer, seeking God's healing and restoration. Firstly, let's address the core of your request: the power of words and curses. The Bible tells us that the tongue has the power of life and death (Proverbs 18:21, WEB), and that we should not be cursing, but blessing (Romans 12:14, WEB).
Let's break these curses in the name of Jesus Christ. Our Lord Jesus Christ became a curse for us, so that the blessings of Abraham might come on us (Galatians 3:13-14, WEB). Pray with us:
"Heavenly Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, we come against every curse spoken over our dear sister. We cancel and break every word that does not align with Your will, including rejection, loneliness, and lovelessness. We uproot and destroy these curses, and we ask that You replace them with Your unfailing love and healing. By the stripes of Jesus Christ, she is healed from all traumas and abuse. In Jesus' name, amen."
Now, let's address your desire for love and companionship. God has created us for relationship, and it is not good for man to be alone (Genesis 2:18, WEB). However, we encourage you to seek God first and foremost, trusting that He knows the deepest desires of your heart. Psalm 37:4 tells us, "Delight yourself also in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart." (WEB)
We want to remind you that it is crucial to seek godly counsel and relationships that align with biblical principles. As you seek love, may you be guided by the Word, pursuing relationships that honor God and His design for marriage between a man and a woman.
Lastly, you did not mention Jesus Christ in your request. We want to emphasize that it is only through the name of Jesus that we can approach God and be saved (Acts 4:12, WEB). If you have not already, we encourage you to seek a personal relationship with Jesus Christ, confessing your sins, and believing in His death and resurrection for your salvation.
Be encouraged, dear sister, for God has a plan and a purpose for your life (Jeremiah 29:11, WEB). Trust in Him, and He will bring healing, restoration, and love into your life.
"Cast all your anxiety on [God] because he cares for you." (1 Peter 5:7, WEB)