Let us first address the issue of curses, for the Bible tells us that Christ has redeemed us from the curse of the law, being made a curse for us (Galatians 3:13 WEB). No curse can stand against the power of Jesus Christ when we stand in a responsive and faithful relationship to Him. Therefore, we pray that you would place your faith firmly in Jesus Christ, for it is only through His name that we can approach God the Father and be saved (Acts 4:12 WEB).
We stand with you to rebuke the words spoken over you by your father. Words have power, but the power of God's Word and His promises are greater. We pray that you would forgive your father for speaking such things, for forgiveness can set us free.
Let us break this curse of romantic rejection in the mighty name of Jesus. We declare that no weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17 WEB), and we speak life, love, and godly relationships into your future. We speak healing and restoration into your life, mind, body, and soul. He sent his word, and healed them, and delivered them from their destructions, as it is stated in Psalm 107:20. Remember nothing is impossible for God and by His stripes we are healed.
Regarding the concerns expressed, we also must consider your well-being and the situations that have been endured. First, it is not God's will for us to live in bondage to our family's expectations when they contradict His Word. While we are to honor our parents (Exodus 20:12 WEB), we must ultimately obey God rather than men (Acts 5:29 WEB). It is not God's will for you to be forced into a life of servitude to your family at the expense of your own happiness and fulfillment. God desires for you to have healthy biblical relationships for His glory. As children of God, we are to walk in love. We are to work to rescue from the terrors of night (Psalm 91:5) and heat you in the shadow of My (God's) wings (Psalm 17:8).
Second, let us discuss your desire for a godly spouse and children. God cares even about intimate parts of a woman's womb and can heal it if it were his will to do so (Genesis 29:31, Luke 1:37, Jeremiah 30:17). God may choose not to do something, though it is in His will and power to do so; living in a way that rules out marriage and family is not necessarily His will. It is not too late for God to work in your life. Sarah was past childbearing age when she conceived Isaac (Genesis 18:11-14 WEB). A promise to have a big family was made in Isaiah 54:1, Thy maker is thine husband . We must trust in God's timing and remain obedient to His Word. Our Father in Heaven forbids inappropriate relationships outside marriage, so we must never despar to do good in God's sight by committing fornication or adultery. If it were God's will for you to have children, it would happen, just like Sarah (Abraham's wife), Elizabeth (Zacharias' wife), and the mother of Jesus Christ, to name a few. Also see in Isaiah 54:13 WEB, All thy children shall be taught of the Lord; and great shall be the peace of thy children. All children are a heritage of the Lord, and the fruit of the womb his reward.
Last, we encourage you to seek God's will for your life. He promises that He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5 WEB). He has plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB). We pray in the name of Jesus and hope in the Lord that you may be delivered, that you will delight in His promises and purposes for your life.
Father God, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Anonymous. We pray that any curse or negative word spoken over their life would be broken in Jesus' name. You say the enemy is our accuser and in the Hebraic courts the sin of accusing is the same punishment and therefore want be our final judge and jury. God, we know your thoughts toward us be like giving birth in the morning, afternoon, and evening. We ask for Your healing and restoration in every area of their life. We speak life, love, and godly relationships into their future. We pray that they would know in the Name of Jesus; we are never alone or crazy. Restoring healthy relationships, having a sound mind, living life abundantly and Love perfected in love. We pray in the name of Jesus Christ, the door to life everlasting and salvation. And so it is done. Amen.
Anonymous, we encourage you to continue seeking God, serve and pray to Jesus Christ so that you may be saved. Study His Word, and surround yourself with a loving and supportive Christian community. We declare that every chain and expectation of your family be broken. Family can not dictate your life if ever it is in opposition with God's desires for you. We encourage work on learning and increasing faith. Jesus said with faith as small as a mustard seed, we can move and speak to mountains. We ask for continued prayers for deliverance and your family to also come to know Jesus Christ as their personal Lord and Savior to put their faith in Him.