Let us begin by acknowledging your pain and the harmful words spoken over your life. We stand with you in prayer, seeking God's healing and restoration.
Firstly, let us address the curse spoken by your father. The power of life and death is in the tongue (Proverbs 18:21, WEB). However, no curse can stand against the blessings that God has for you. In Deuteronomy 23:5 (WEB), it says, "Nevertheless Yahweh your God wouldnβt listen to Balaam; but Yahweh your God turned the curse into a blessing to you, because Yahweh your God loved you."
Let us pray:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. We stand in agreement against the curses spoken over our dear sister. We break and nullify every negative word, every pronouncement of rejection, loneliness, and despair. We declare that no weapon formed against her will prosper (Isaiah 54:17, WEB). Father, we ask that you replace these curses with blessings, that she may know love, healing, and restoration. In Jesus' name, we command every spirit of rejection, abandonment, and disrespect to leave her now and forever. Fill her with your love, peace, and joy. Give her the desires of her heart, according to your will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you, dear sister, to hold onto God's promises for you. In Jeremiah 29:11 (WEB), it says, "'For I know the thoughts that I think toward you,' says Yahweh, 'thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future.'" God's will is not for you to be lonely, sad, and rejected, but to prosper you and give you a hope and a future.
We also want to address your desire for love. While it's natural to want companionship, we encourage you to seek God first and trust in His timing. Psalm 37:4 (WEB) says, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." As you delight in Him, He will bring the right godly spouse into your life, in His perfect timing.
Lastly, we want to remind you that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God. If you haven't already, we encourage you to believe in Jesus Christ, confessing Him as your Lord and Savior. In Acts 4:12 (WEB), it says, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Stay strong in the Lord, dear sister. Trust in His love and His plans for you. We are praying for you.