We understand your desire for reunification with RDL, and we want to lift your situation up in prayer, seeking God's will for both of your lives. However, we must first align our hearts with the principles outlined in God's Word.
In Philippians 2:13, it is written, "For it is God who works in you both to will and to do for his good pleasure." We pray that God's will be done in your lives, and if it is His desire for you and RDL to be reunited, that it would be initiated by Him, working in RDL's heart.
We pray that your relationship, if reunited, would be one that honors God. In Galatians 5:22-23, the fruit of the Spirit is described: "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law." We pray that these qualities would be evident in your relationship, reflecting the love of Christ.
However, we must also address that the Bible is clear about intimacy and emotional connection. If you and RDL are not married, we must be careful not to cross boundaries that are reserved for marriage. In 1 Corinthians 6:18, it is written, "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but whoever commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." We encourage you to pursue a godly courtship with the goal of marriage, rather than merely a relationship.
We also pray that you both would trust in the Lord, even in this situation. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and donโt lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
Finally, we noticed that your request does not mention the name of Jesus. It is by His name that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" We pray that you would come to know Jesus more deeply and trust in His name.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.