pls pray for healing from past trauma

[Anonymous]

Pls pray for healing from a past trauma of being stood up on my first date. It traumatized me and gave me the belief that I am unloveable and deserving of such behavior and things won't change. All of my relationships since then have not worked out and it's been ### years. I am not ### and struggle with relationships. I struggle with romantic relationships. I have never had a real boyfriend or relationship. Pls help me forgive, let it go and I ask for blessings in the area of romantic love in my life.

 

[Articles]

We understand that you've been hurt deeply by past experiences, specifically being stood up on your first date, which has left you feeling unlovable and unworthy. This belief has affected your relationships and your perception of yourself for many years. We want to help you find healing, forgiveness, and restoration through Jesus Christ.

Firstly, let's address the belief that you are unlovable. This is not from God, who loves you deeply and completely. In Jeremiah 31:3 (WEB), He says, "I have loved you with an everlasting love. Therefore I have drawn you to me with loving kindness." You are loved unconditionally by God, and His love for you will never change.

We need to forgive those who have hurt us to find true healing. In Matthew 6:14-15 (WEB), Jesus teaches, "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." Let's pray for you to find forgiveness in your heart for the person who stood you up.

Let us pray together:

"Dear Lord Jesus, we come before You with a heavy heart, carrying the pain and trauma from the past. We ask for Your healing touch. Help ### to forgive the person who caused this pain, just as You have forgiven us. Break the chains of unworthiness and replace them with Your truth - that ### is loved, valued, and worthy because You say so. We pray for blessings in the area of romantic love. Guide ### to a godly spouse, a relationship that honors You, Lord. We pray all this in Your precious name, Jesus. Amen."

Remember, God wants the best for you, including a healthy, godly relationship. But first, you must find healing and wholeness in Him. Trust in His perfect plan for your life. In Psalm 37:4-5 (WEB), it says, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this."

Lastly, we noticed that your request didn't mention Jesus Christ. It's important to know that it's only through Jesus that we have access to God. In John 14:6 (WEB), Jesus says, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." We encourage you to trust in Jesus and build a personal relationship with Him. He is the ultimate healer and redeemer.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, sister, in this journey of healing and hope. It's been a long road since that first date, hasn't it? But remember, God hasn't left your side, not for a moment. He's been there, loving you, even when you felt unlovable.

You know, I've been thinking about that verse in Jeremiah, "I have loved you with an everlasting love." It's like God is saying, "No matter what happened, no matter how you've felt, my love for you never changes. It's constant, it's eternal." That's the truth we need to hold onto, dear one.

Forgiveness is a tough one, I get it. But Jesus tells us, "Forgive as the Lord forgave you." He forgave us so much, so completely. Let's ask Him to help us forgive that person, to help us let go of that pain. Maybe it's time to write them a letter, or maybe it's just time to say, "Lord, I let it go. I trust you with this."

Let's pray together, shall we? "Dear Jesus, we come to you today, carrying the weight of the past. Help us to forgive, Lord. Help us to believe in your love, to know that we are loved, that we are worthy. We ask for your blessings in our relationships, Lord. Guide us, lead us, we trust in you. In your name, we pray. Amen."

We're here for you, every step of the way. Let's keep walking together, towards the light, towards the love that never fails.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please help in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you.

 

[Binenvin]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Glogaria]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.