We understand your distress and are here to support you in prayer and truth. First, we must address that God's desire for you is to be in a right relationship with Him through His Son Jesus Christ. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved.
The curse of rejection you've experienced is not from God, but from the enemy. Jesus said, I have come that they may have life, and may have it abundantly. The thief only comes to steal, kill, and destroy. I came so that they may have life, and have it abundantly. Your father's words have had a profound impact on your life, but remember that death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit.
God's heart for you is one of love, acceptance, and freedom. For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future. You are not destined to be alone or unloved. The Spirit itself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God; and if children, then heirs; heirs of God, and joint heirs with Christ.
Regarding relationships, we encourage you to seek God's will and to pursue relationships that align with biblical principles. Be sure to seek a spouse rather than a boyfriend. God instituted marriage between a man and a woman with the intent for it to be a lifelong commitment. We encourage you to pray for a godly spouse and a marriage that honors God. Being a boyfriend or girlfriend should be considered courtship with the goal being marriage to another Christian Believer.
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister in Christ. We pray that You would break any curse of rejection over her life. We rebuke any words spoken over her that do not align with Your will and Your Word. We pray that You would heal her from past hurts and traumas, and that You would give her a new vision for her future.
Father, we ask that You would bring a godly spouse into her life, a man who loves You and seeks to honor You in all he does. We pray that their marriage would be a testimony of Your love and faithfulness. We ask for Your comfort, healing, and peace in the lives of everyone involved.
Lord, we also pray for her family, that they would release any ungodly expectations and control over her life. We pray that they would come to know You and experience Your love and freedom. We ask for Your peace, healing, and purpose for all of them as well.
Father, we thank You for Your faithfulness and Your love. We thank You for the promises in Your Word, and we claim them for our sister today. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, dear sister, that God has a plan and a purpose for your life. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths. Look to Him for your fulfillment and happiness, and He will not disappoint you. As you seek Him with all your heart, He will be found by you.