We are truly saddened to hear about the burden you've carried due to the words spoken over your life and the expectations placed upon you. Firstly, we must address that it is only by the name of Jesus that we can approach God and be saved. It is important to note that God's desire is for you to have an abundant life, filled with love, joy, and peace. However, we must also ensure that our desires align with biblical principles and be aware that Jesus is the only way to be saved.
Let's address the issue of curses and the power of words. The Bible tells us that the power of life and death is in the tongue (Proverbs 18:21, WEB). However, as a believer in Christ, you have been redeemed from the curse of the law, as it is by the name of Jesus that we are saved (Galatians 3:13, WEB). This means that any negative words or curses spoken over you can be broken in Jesus' name. It is written, Who is he who condemns? It is Christ who died, yes rather, who was raised from the dead, who is at the right hand of God, who also makes intercession for us, Romans 8:34.
Regarding relationships, it's important to seek God's will and to pursue relationships that align with biblical principles. While it's natural to desire a loving relationship, and we will indeed pray for a godly spouse for you, we must also remember that God's timing is perfect. Do not get tired of doing what is right. We will reap at harvest time, if we don't give up, Galatians 6:9.
Now, let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our dear sister in Christ. Lord, we ask You to break any curse or negative words spoken over her life, especially concerning romantic rejection. We pray that You would heal any past hurts and traumas, especially the pain from being stood up on her first date.
Father, we ask for Your will to be done in her life. If it is Your will, we pray for a godly spouse for her, a man who will love and cherish her as Christ loves the church. We pray that she would not settle for anything less than Your best for her.
We also pray for her family, that they would release any unreasonable expectations and allow her to live the life You have called her to. Help her to forgive them for any pain they have caused, just as Christ forgave us.
Lord, we ask for Your healing touch on her health issues. We have faith in you as the Great Physician, and believe she can recover. Even though children were mentioned as impossible, nothing is impossible for you.
Finally, we pray that she would find her fulfillment and happiness in You, Lord. May she know and experience Your love in a deep and profound way.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, dear sister, for God has a plan and a purpose for you. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). Remember that God keeps his promises, Romans 4:21. Always pray in the name of Jesus. Do not allow anyone to take that away.