pls break the curse of romantic rejection and rejection overall

[Anonymous]

pls pray to break all curses of romantic rejection over my life. My father put this curse over my life and said no one would ever love me and that I would die alone and crazy. I was expected to care for my family at the expense of me having a relationship and having a career. I am tired of putting my life on hold for them. I am almost 50, and due to health issues cannot have children. I have accepted that I will not have children. I have never had an official committed relationship. I was literally stood up on my first date and was traumatized and devastated. I know God would not want me to lead a loveless existence. God would want me to be fulfilled in love and happy. I have wasted and given up so many years of my life because of my family's expectations and control of how I should live my life. Pls help. I am so tired of this. I need to have my boyfriend. I do not want to experience my whole life without having true love. Thank you, Sincerely.

 

[Articles]

We are truly heartbroken to hear about the burden you've been carrying due to the words spoken over your life and the expectations placed upon you. We stand with you in prayer and believe that God has a plan to redeem and restore the years that have been taken from you.

Firstly, we must address that the belief in curses and the power they hold is not supported by biblical principles. As Christians, we do not believe in the power of curses, but rather the power of God.

God's word says, For I know the plans I have for you, says Yahweh, plans for peace, and not for evil, to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11 WEB.

It is not God's will for you to live in isolation, despair, or bondage to past hurtful words or expectations. God desires for you to live in freedom, hope, and love. We must also remember the power of life and death that our words hold. Proverbs 18:21 WEB Death and life are in the power of the tongue; those who love it will eat its fruit.

The words spoken over you by your father were hurtful and not in line with God's will. We must remember Proverbs 15:4 WEB. A gentle tongue is a tree of life but impertinence in it breaks the spirit.

We pray that God will heal your spirit from any brokenness caused. We pray for any spoken words over you that do not align with the Lord's promises to be broken and nullified in Jesus' name.

Now, let us address the desire of your heart for a companion. We believe that God has a plan for you to be married according to His will as stated in the creation of man and woman in Genesis 2:18-25 and endorsed by Jesus Christ in Matthew 19:4-6.

It is important to remember that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. As you desire a boyfriend you need to understand that this should be in preparation to find a godly husband. As a Christian it is important to only be with another Christian and the goal should be marriage.

You may not have children and may feel that time is running out, but God still has a plan for you. He still can fulfill your desire for a spouse and you can find fulfillment in a godly marriage. You can also look for ways to minister to children and be a blessing to them.

We also encourage you to seek God's will in all things, including your relationships. Remember that God's desire is for you to live in abundance and joy. Cast all your anxiety on him, because he cares for you. 1 Peter 5:7 WEB.

As you wait on God to fulfill your heart desires, we recommend and pray that you will seek a relationship with Jesus Christ our Lord. We must remember that it is only in the name of Jesus that we can be saved and only in his name we can have access to the Father.

And in no other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved! Acts 4:12 WEB

And whatever you may ask in my name, I will do it, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you ask anything in my name, I will do it. If you love me, keep my commandments. John 14:13-15 WEB

Lord Jesus, we come before You, lifting up our sister in Christ who has carried this burden for far too long. We pray that You will break any hold that these words may have had over her life. We pray that You will heal her from the trauma and disappointment she has experienced. We ask that You will redeem the time that has been lost and restore the years that have been taken from her. We pray that You will fulfill the desires of her heart and bring a godly spouse into her life, that she may know the love and companionship that You have designed for her. We ask all of this in Your precious name, Lord Jesus. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, dear friend. We understand the weight you've been carrying, and we want you to know that you're not alone. We've been praying for you, and we want to encourage you with these words:

Firstly, let's remember that our God is a God of redemption and restoration. He can turn around any situation, no matter how bleak it may seem. Those words spoken over you by your father were hurtful, but they don't define your future. God's word in Jeremiah 29:11 tells us, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Let's claim that promise for you today.

We also want to remind you that God has a purpose for your life, and that includes love and companionship. In Genesis 2:18, we read, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him." This was God's design from the beginning, and it hasn't changed. We believe that God can and will fulfill your desire for a godly spouse, in His perfect timing.

In the meantime, let's focus on growing in our relationship with Jesus. He is our source of hope, joy, and peace. As we wait on God, let's seek Him with all our hearts. Remember, He cares for you deeply, and He has a plan for your life.

Let's continue to pray for you, dear friend. We ask that God would heal your heart from any pain or disappointment you've experienced. We pray that He would break any hold that those words may have had over your life and restore the years that have been taken from you. We ask that God would fulfill the desires of your heart and bring a godly spouse into your life, according to His will. We pray all of this in Jesus' precious name. Amen.

 

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Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.