We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and trauma that you have experienced due to the words of rejection and curses spoken over your life. We stand with you in the name of Jesus Christ and agree in prayer to break this curse of rejection, in Jesus' name. We can make this promise based on scripture, so let us address this.
You can pray for yourself. Start with this important verse in James 4:7:
"Be subject therefore to God, but resist the devil, and he will flee from you."
Submit yourself to God allows you to resist the devil. You must resist the devil, only then will he flee from you. The devil can only be effective with your permission.
Therefore, stand up for yourself. However, you are not alone. We are standing with you based on this verse and another important verse for you.
Scripture wants us to know, Romans 8:38, about our curses from God's perspective, We know "God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." Your trials, trauma, and oppression, will only serve to strengthen you in becoming more like Jesus Christ. God knows what is going on, just like he heard the cries of the children of Israel when they were slaves in Egypt and being hurt. God has promised in Isaiah 54:17, 'No weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that rises against you in judgment. This is the heritage of the servants of Yahweh, and their righteousness is of me, says Yahweh.'
When situations like that happen to ourselves or others we should pray in the light of Luke 12:5, since Jesus said: "But I will warn you whom you should fear. Fear him who, after he has killed, has power to cast into Gehenna. Yes, I tell you, fear him.". By that scripture, He was not making a suggestion. If your father or anyone said anything to cause you this oppression or to cause rejection then Jesus says to fear God. We should also pray that they also accept Him for themselves and receive salvation. Know and understand that we fight against powers in high places in Jesus' name. We pray for them and we simultaneously must rebuke anyone and any curse or prophesy that disrespects Jesus or egregiously harms or hurts a child of Jesus through the demonic prophesy they cast over your life.
Let us rebuke those who oppressed you and therefore hurt, insulted, or blasphemed Jesus. Let us rebuke this in Jesus' name.
God has not given you a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control, Timothy 1:7. Know and understand that your identity is found in Christ Jesus, and no one can take that away from you. Colossians 2:10 states, "in him you are made full". His approval and love should be our goal to get and to give.
We pray and stand with you in agreeance, that God is generous and He is faithful, therefore, He will break this curse in your life as you resist and as we agree for it to be broken in Jesus' name. We go before the throne of grace and mercy and intercede on your behalf for God's will in your life in Jesus' name.
We pray that He will remove this curse of rejection from its root . You deserve better. Do not live a life of rejection.
Do not believe the things that they say against you. They are lies. God's word says in Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." Where there is a future, there is hope- Psalm 39:7.
Let us also address the lack of faith in God's plan by expecting you to cater to them at the expense of your life. Remember God says you have the right to make your own personal and private life and for marriage. However, you must do this in God's will. Pray about this, and that they will be rebuked, but also pray for their relationship with God. Make sure that this earthly relationship with them does not hurt or hinder you from the repentance of your sins, and therefore prevent or deny your ability to get to heaven. This can apply to family members including your father. By scripture (and from Jesus' own mouth), they must repent, turn to Christ ( exclusively) and put Him first. We believe in the sanctity of marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, as outlined in the Bible, and that we will pray for godly Christian spouses, and marriages that honor God, and we will encourage God's beloved individuals, to pursue God directed marital relationships that align with biblical principles. Your earthly marriage will serve as a representation of the relationship between Christ and our church. Being a boyfriend or girlfriend should be considered courtship with the goal being marriage to another Christian believer. Sex before or outside marriage is fornication or possibly adultery and should be addressed if in the context and God absolutely wants us to resist. Sex before marriage is fornication. Exploitation.
Let us say again, because it is very important, that sex before or outside marriage is fornication or possibly adultery and should be addressed if in the context. Scripture discusses it in 1st Corinthians 7:2, except it be with fornication. Since Paul does not endorse it then neither do we. Later in scripture 1st Corinthians 7:9, "For it is better to marry than to burn.". God wants you to be safe. We want you to practice courtship before marriage and live a life governed by Jesus and for Jesus with rigorous self-control as the Bible ask of us. We understand that you may feel traumatized by your first date, but stand up and pray in Jesus' name, God allows us to pursue a spouse by dating. It was not meant to be this way. We pray the Holy Spirit will prepare you and prepare a willing spouse for you in Jesus' name.
Remember this verse, because it is very important too, 2nd Corinthians 6:14, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" We do not believe that what you may not know or understand about this verse excuses it nor what other people tell you about it. It is very plain. We are to marry other Christians. Jesus said this because it prevents unnecessary problems and allows any children in this marriage to grow in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. It does not guarantee a earthly marriage from separation or divorce. But it provides a better earthly picture of the relationship between Christ and his church and what a marriage could be.
We pray for the useless words and harm caused by these words so that while remembering them does not cause even more harm leaving emotional scars of rejection. That useless trauma taken from that time and that experience and counseling for the harm be received. The Holy Spirit can counsel you and heal you. If God provided professional counseling then that would be ok too.
We also pray in the name of Jesus, to mend your broken heart and heal your wounds. Turn your life over to Jesus, commit your life to Him now, if you have not already and to experience Jesus personally and allow Him to give you favor to have a family and a life through Him.
God has a plan for your relationships, and He wants to bless you with love, acceptance, respect, and commitment, in Jesus' name. Trust in His timing and His ways. We pray, Lord, that You are to heal his heart, remove the curse of rejection, and my grant Anonymous favor in relationships by revealing the love of Christ.
In finality, know and understand that God will heal you and you can have a family, God will show his favor and maybe with children if you just trust in Him. Remember what it said in Genesis 18:14, which reads "Is anything too hard for Yahweh? At the appointed time I will return to you, when the season comes around, and Sarah will have a son.". Sarah did not think she could have children but God is sovereign. Remember that nothing is impossible with God (Matthew 19:26).
Finally, we want to remind you that salvation is found in no one else but Jesus Christ . We must align this request in Jesus' name, based on this scripture,
Acts 4:12, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, through which we must be saved!"
Therefore, let us make our prayers known, and we pray that you continue to make your prayers known in Jesus' name. We love you and pray for you in Jesus' name.