We are truly saddened to hear about the burden you've carried due to the words spoken over your life and the expectations placed upon you. Firstly, we must address that it is only by the name of Jesus that we can approach God and be saved. For "there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved" (Acts 4:12 WEB).
Let's address the issue of rejection and curses. In Christ we know that there is no power of a curse. You are a new creation in Christ.
Know this, "Christ has redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us. For it is written, 'Cursed is everyone who hangs on a tree,' that the blessing of Abraham might come on the Gentiles through Christ Jesus; that we might receive the promise of the Spirit through faith" (Galatians 3:13-14 WEB).
We rebuke any acceptance of curse you may have accepted without understanding that Jesus Christ has redeemed you from this. You must also beware of the power of your words. "Death and life are in the power of the tongue; those who love it will eat its fruit" (Proverbs 18:21 WEB). Do not speak negatively about your life, rather speak life in Jesus.
Regarding relationships, we want to encourage you to seek God's will and trust in His timing. It is never too late for God to bring someone into your life.
"Delight yourself also in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord; trust also in him, and he will do it. He will make your righteousness go forth as the light, and your justice as the noon day sun" (Psalm 37:4-6 WEB).
Understand that a boyfriend is not the goal. The goal is a Godly spouse and marriage is the goal.
"Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB).
Please, stay strong in the Lord and wait on Him. Make sure you are healed from your past hurts and ready for a healthy relationship.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister in Christ. We thank You for Your love and faithfulness in her life. We rebuke any curse and any words not in alignment with what you say in your word and cancel them in Jesus Name. Father, we ask that You heal her from past hurts and rejection, and that You break any strongholds or lies of the enemy in her life In Jesus Name. Lord, we pray for Your will to be done in her life, and if it is Your will, we pray that You bring a Godly spouse into her life at the right time in Jesus Name. Help her to trust in You, to wait on You, and to be patient during this season.
May she experience the love, joy, and peace that comes from being in relationship with Christ. May she walk in freedom and live the life God has planned for her.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Stand on God's promises. You are redeemed from the curse of the law. If God has planned for you to be married rest assured he will bring it to pass. Do not accept a boyfriend for the sake of having someone. We are praying for you.
