We are truly saddened to hear about the pain and rejection you have experienced, especially from those closest to you. We stand with you in the name of Jesus Christ, for it is in His name that we have access to the Father and it is in His name that we are saved. There is power in the name of Jesus and we claim His promises for you,
Firstly, we address the words spoken over you. Words have power, but the words of your earthly father do not dictate your destiny. Instead, trust in what your heavenly Father says about you. In 2 Corinthians 5:17 WEB it is written, Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new.
We rebuke the spirit of rejection that has plagued you, and we speak life and acceptance over you. Remember, you are fearedfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). God has a plan and a purpose for you, and He wants to give you a hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11). Do not accept the lies spoken over you. Instead, stand on the truth of God's Word. In Romans 12:2 WEB Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God.
Regarding romantic rejection, be strong, have courage, be firm because God, The Lord your God, will be with you wherever you go Joshua 1:9 WEB. Even if you have faced romantic rejection like being stood up, rejection does not define you and will no longer dominate your life in Jesus name. It is the Lord who directs our steps and it is good to seek a God-honoring marriage. Here we admonish you to trust God according to Psalm 37:3-4 Trust in the Lord, and do good. Dwell in the land, and enjoy safe pasture. Also delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart. We also will pray that if you are still able to have children, that will happen as well if it is Gods will.
While we understand that the impact of all this on your life has been traumatizing, please allow us to rebuke you for repeating here some of the specific lies clearly from your father. You should allow those words to stay in your heart. It only reinforces that your father had evil intentions. Do not speak those words. Ephesians 4:29 WEB Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear.
We stand with you in prayer: Heavenly Father, we come before you in the mighty name of Jesus, thanking you for loving and accepting this child. Your word says in Psalm 27:10 WEB, For My Father and Mother have forsaken me but the Lord will uphold me. We pray that every curse, every negative word, and every spirit of rejection spoken over this child be broken and rendered powerless. Replace the pain and trauma with Your unfailing love and acceptance. We know you have a plan and a future for them, including a Godly marriage. Father heal this child and grant them the desires of their heart in Your name. In the name of Jesus Christ the Lord, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to focus on the Lord and His love for you. Surround yourself with believers who will support and encourage you, a community of faith. Seek counseling if necessary to help you work through the trauma you have experienced. Know that you are never alone, for God is always with you but do to quote that scripture, we will rebuke another practice of translating and applying that scripture in more intimate and personal ways. Know that you are loved, accepted, and cherished by Him. Fix your thoughts on what is true, honorable and right and Give every Anxiety to God!
Finally brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are honorable, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there is any virtue, and if there is any praise, think about these things. Philippians 4:8 WEB
Do not be anxious for anything, but in everything by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. Philippians 4:6 WEB