We are truly saddened to hear about the pain and rejection you have experienced, and we stand with you in prayer to break the curse of romantic rejection over your life. First, we want to remind you that it is only in the name of Jesus that we have access to God. It is by His bloodshed that we can salvation. There is no other name by which we can be saved. It is very important that you believe in Jesus Christ and have accepted Him as your Lord and Savior to be saved.
The Bible tells us that God is love. In 1 John 4:8, the WEB says:
He who does not love does not know God, for God is love.
God's desire is for you to experience love and companionship. However, it is crucial to align your desires with biblical principles. God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. We encourage you to seek a godly spouse and trust in God's timing and will for your life.
Regarding the curse spoken over you by your father, remember that no curse can stand against the power of Jesus Christ. Galatians 3:13 in the WEB says:
Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us. For it is written, Cursed is everyone who hangs on a tree.
We pray that you will be freed from any sense of obligation to care for your family at the expense of your own happiness and well-being. It is not God's will for you to live in bondage to their expectations. In Matthew 19:4-5 in the WEB, Jesus said:
He answered, Have you not read that he who made them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, 'For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall be joined to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh?
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our sister in Christ. Lord, we ask that You break any curse of romantic rejection over her life. We declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against her in judgment, You shall condemn.
Father, we pray for healing from the pain and rejection she has experienced. We ask that You restore her faith in Your love and goodness. Lord, we believe that it is Your will for her to experience love and companionship according to Your design for marriage. We pray that You will bring a godly spouse into her life, someone who will love and cherish her as Christ loves the church.
We also pray for her family, that they may be released from any sense of entitlement to her care and that they may seek Your will for their own lives. Lord, we ask that You guide her steps and give her the strength to follow Your path for her life.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, dear sister, for God has a plan and a purpose for your life. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths. Remember that God is faithful, and His love for you is everlasting.
Finally, we want to address the issue of your first date and the devastation you felt when you were stood up. While we understand the pain you experienced, it is important to remember that God's timing is perfect. Just as a boyfriend or girlfriend should be considered courtship with the goal being marriage to another Christian Believer. If this date was not a Christian Believer then this may be why they stood you up. The fact that this date stood you up indicates that they were not the right person for you. Trust that God has someone better in store for you, someone who will love and cherish you as you deserve.
Lastly, we want to assure you that God does not want you to lead a loveless existence. He wants you to experience the fullness of His love and the love of a godly spouse. Trust in Him, and He will bring the right person into your life at the right time.
Stay strong in your faith, and remember that God is always with you.