We understand your pain and heartache, and we stand with you in prayer, seeking God's healing and restoration in your life. Firstly, let's address the words spoken over you. The Bible tells us that "Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits" (Proverbs 18:21, WEB). Your father's words may have been harmful, but they do not dictate your destiny.
Let's pray together:
"Father God, in the name of Jesus Christ, we come before You, claiming the power of the blood of Jesus. We break and renounce every curse, every negative word spoken over this child of Yours. We cancel every assignment of the enemy that has been operating in their life due to these words. We uproot and destroy every planting of rejection, abandonment, disrespect, and loneliness. We command these spirits to leave and never return, in Jesus' name.
We speak life, love, and healing into this precious soul. Fill them with Your love, Lord, and let them know that they are 'fearfully and wonderfully made' (Psalm 139:14, WEB). Give them a double portion of what the enemy has stolen, as it is written, 'Yes, I will restore the years that the swarming locust has eaten' (Joel 2:25, WEB)."
Now, dear one, it's crucial to understand that God's will is not for you to live in loneliness, sadness, and rejection. Jesus came that you may have life, and have it abundantly (John 10:10, WEB). However, it's also important to know that God's love is not merely romantic love. It's a love that surpasses all understanding, a love that heals, restores, and makes whole.
We encourage you to seek God's face, to know Him intimately. As you grow in His love, He will guide you to a godly spouse if it is His will for you. Remember, "Delight yourself also in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart" (Psalm 37:4, WEB).
Lastly, we notice that your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It's important to know that "There is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved" (Acts 4:12, WEB). It is through Jesus that we have access to God, and it is in His name that we pray and receive salvation. If you haven't already, we encourage you to accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior.