We understand your pain and we are here to stand with you in prayer and truth, based on the promises of God. Let's address the issues you've shared and bring them before the Lord together, in Jesus' name.
Firstly, it's important to know that the words spoken over you by your father or anyone else do not have the power to dictate your destiny. The Bible tells us that "Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit" (Proverbs 18:21 WEB). This means that you have the power to speak life and blessing into your own life, and to reject any curses or negative words spoken over you.
We rebuke the lies and curses spoken over you, and we declare that they have no power over your life. Instead, we speak the truth of God's Word over you: "For I know the plans that I have for you, says the LORD, plans for welfare and not for calamity, to give you a future and a hope" (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB).
Regarding relationships, it's important to align our desires with God's will. God wants you to have loving and fulfilling relationships, ultimately leading to a godly marriage if that is His will for you. However, it's crucial to seek these relationships in a way that honors God, pursuing courtship with the goal of marrying a fellow believer in Christ. Remember, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB).
Let's pray together:
*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, asking for Your healing and restoration in our dear sister's life. We ask that You break and uproot every curse, negative word, and lie spoken over her. Replace the pain and rejection she has experienced with Your unfailing love and healing. Give her the strength to resist any pressure to serve others at the expense of her own well-being. Help her to seek relationships that honor You and align with Your will for her life. Surround her with loving, supportive friends and family who will encourage her and help her grow in her relationship with You. Provide her with a godly spouse if that is Your will for her, so that she may experience the love and companionship she desires. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*
Remember, it's only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God and salvation. If you haven't already, make sure to confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus, and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, for with the heart one believes unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation (Romans 10:9-10 WEB).
Be encouraged, dear sister, for God loves you and has a beautiful plan for your life. Trust in Him, and He will make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB).