We understand that you are going through a challenging time in your marriage and personal life. Let's bring your concerns before the Lord in prayer and seek His guidance through the Scriptures.
Firstly, let's address the concerns about your husband. It is clear that there are struggles in your marriage, and it is important to pray for unity and understanding. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 5:25-28 WEB:
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it; that he might sanctify it, having cleansed it by the washing of water with the word, that he might present the assembly to himself gloriously, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.
Even so, husbands also ought to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself. For no man ever hated his own flesh; but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord also does the assembly.
We pray that your husband will take his role and responsibilities seriously, that he will love, care for, and cherish you as the Word of God instructs. We pray that he will be gentle, thoughtful, and responsible, and that any manipulative or controlling behavior will cease.
We pray for his heart, Father, that he may have a heart after You that he will be a Man of God, Father. That he will flee the foolishness of boundless selfishness and stubbornness that You hate and instead pursue the selflessness, humility, love, and patience of Your Son Jesus Christ, Father.
We also pray for you, that God will heal you from ADHD, depression, and low self-esteem. We know that God's desire is for you to be whole and at peace. In 2 Corinthians 12:9 WEB, the Lord says, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore, we will most gladly boast all the more about our weaknesses, that the power of Christ may rest on us.”
We pray that God will fill you with motivation, strength, and wisdom to manage your home, family, and personal life. Remember, God sees your struggles and He cares for you deeply.
Husbands, in the same way, live with your wives in an understanding way, as with a weaker vessel, since she is a woman; and grant her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers won’t be hindered. 1 Peter 3:7 WEB
We also want to remind you of the power of praying in Jesus' name. It is only through Him that we have access to God the Father. As it says in John 14:6 WEB, Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.' Therefore, it is crucial to pray in His name and to believe in His power to transform your lives.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to seek godly counsel and support during this time. It may be beneficial to speak with a pastor or a trusted Christian mentor about your marriage and personal struggles. They can provide you with additional guidance and support from a biblical perspective.
Father God, in Jesus' name, we ask that you intervene in this marriage and in their lives individually. We ask that you turn Your face toward them and have mercy on them. We ask that you will humble their hearts before you and toward each other that You will turn this difficult situation into an opportunity to glorify Your Name and further Your kingdom. We ask that You will provide godly counselors and mentors to help them and that You will mean all this for good. Father God, You are able to do above and beyond all that we ask or think and we ask that You will do just that in Jesus' Name.
We will continue to pray for you and your husband, trusting that God will work in your lives for His glory.
Let us also remember God’s words in Romans 8:28 WEB:
"We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose.”
Father, we pray for this woman to experience the love of Jesus Christ. Father, we pray that she will experience Christ in a way that she has never experienced Him before. We pray that she will experience the love of Christ in such a way that she will no longer be able to doubt the love of Christ for her. We pray that she will experience the love of Christ in such a way that she will no longer have room in her heart to worry and to doubt. We pray that she will be able to rest in the love of Christ, Father. In Jesus' Name.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
