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My husband and I was separated for over 4 years and we are now rekindling and the young lady he was dealing with while we were apart keeps making problems I need her removed from our circle.
My husband and I was separated for over 4 years and we are now rekindling and the young lady he was dealing with while we were apart keeps making problems I need her removed from our circle.
Amen . Thank YouWe understand that you are going through a challenging situation, and we are here to pray and provide biblical guidance for you. Firstly, we commend you for seeking to rekindle your marriage, as God designed marriage to be a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman.
In addressing the issue, we must remember that God hates divorce and desires for marriages to be reconciled and strengthened. As it is written in Malachi 2:16 WEB, "For I hate divorce," says Yahweh, the God of Israel, "and him who covers his garment with violence!" says Yahweh of Armies. "Therefore pay attention to your spirit, that you don't be unfaithful."
Regarding the young lady who was involved with your husband during your separation, it is important to handle this situation with wisdom and grace. First, we must acknowledge that the sin of adultery and fornication was committed. While it takes two to stir up this type of sin, two people repenting will stop it. We must pray for all involved, including the young lady, that all repent and turn away from this sin. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 “Or don't you know that the unrighteous will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Don't be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortioners, will inherit the Kingdom of God. Such were some of you, but you were washed. But you were sanctified. But you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and in the Spirit of our God.” Only by repenting by accepting Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior by calling on Jesus’ name and believing in Him can any of us have the sin problem fixed according to Romans 10:9 WEB “that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved”. Because anyone can be forgiven and saved if they call on the name of Jesus, “for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!” as it is written in Acts 4:12.
You have not mentioned your name or your husband’s name, so we will pray to God who knows your heart and every person that you are praying about. That includes the other woman you want removed as well. Sin and anything that does not look like godly wise living has to be removed and dealt with in a godly way to uphold the sanctity of marriage.
Let us pray together in the name of Jesus:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister and her marriage. Lord you know the heart of every person involved in this prayer request and every person who is being prayed about. We pray for and call on the name of Jesus to be the focal point in each person’s life. Jesus, Lord, we ask for you to save and forgive the sins of the ones being prayed about in this request. According to 1 John 1:9, if we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. For this married couple we ask that You restore and strengthen their bond, and give them the wisdom and grace to navigate this challenging time. We ask and pray only according to Your will if this couple should be reconciled as a testimony of Your redeeming power. We pray this young lady who was involved can repent and find your mercy heavenly Father. We know that you have forgiven her and will forgive her. Help both husband and wife to forgive her. There is no one you cannot save and people can repent and change. Remove any confusion or chaos caused by unwise decisions from the past separation. Guide this couple by Your Spirit, and help them to seek Your will above all else. We also ask that if there is fornication or adultery or any other sin that is still happening up to this time and day, bring it in the light so the ones who have not repented which might include both husband and wife will see the sin properly and ask for forgiveness. Do not let anyone professing the name of Jesus be disqualified from Your work by any habitual unrepentant sin. Help all believers including this couple to be salt and light worthy of your gospel. Help them to live wisely by knowing you more by reading your word. Incline their heart to maintain a pure, holy, and focused lifestyle on serving You alone. In the name of Jesus, help them to put You first in their lives by keeping the great commandment. Forbid they never put others before You. In Jesus' name, we do not pray for curses or harm to anyone. We pray according to your will. We pray that all who read or hear this prayer will come to the saving knowledge of Jesus Christ who is THE way, the truth, and the life.
Be continued to be encouraged by the words in Romans 8:28 WEB, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." Trust that God is working in your situation, and He can the affairs of this time as well as hearts and attitudes in Jesus’ name according to His perfect will. Keep your heart focused on Jesus alone Jesus because “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your strength, and with all your mind; and your neighbor as yourself.” as it is written in Luke 10:27. If the couple in question is wise, has faith, and believes, it may be possible that the woman causing trouble can be removed with love to track God rather than the belongings of others.
Study Ephesians with your house and have the Holy Spirit guide Your spirit on being the right godly examples to this young lady and anyone else. She might be saved or be looking for a godly example or family.
In closing Paul said it like the Holy Spirit wanted: “Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it; that he might sanctify it, having cleansed it by the washing of water with the word, that he might present the assembly to himself gloriously, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. Even so husbands also ought to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself. For no man ever hated his own flesh; but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord also does the assembly; because we are members of his body, of his flesh and bones. "For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will be joined to his wife. The two will become one flesh." This mystery is great, but I speak concerning Christ and of the assembly. Nevertheless each of you must also love his own wife even as himself; and let each wife see that she respects her husband.” Ephesians 5:22-33 WEB.
Amen Thank YouI can assure you that Jesus is very real! Hell is very real (Lake of Lava)! Sometimes if we really want something from Jesus then we need to read and study about how to get Him to take care of that. Sometimes we think we have prayed enough but maybe we just haven’t prayed the right way.
Read the book of Hosea in the Bible KJV for promises from God/Jesus for our marriages and our families. This brought my wife back to me more than once...
Pray this for yourself....
In Jesus put a hedge around my marriage, around my husband, turn away other lovers, restore us unto You and restore us unto each other in Jesus! All for Your Glory Lord Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!
We should always love and forgive especially our spouses as if it is ourselves standing before Jesus. This brought my wife back to me a few times in such a way that she actually still thinks I was the one that sabotaged her but I know differently.