Let us begin by thanking you for your cry for help and recognizing that God is the ultimate source of comfort and guidance. We are reminded of the words in Psalm 34:18, The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit.
We appreciate that you acknowledged that forgiveness begins with repentance. One of the most important things to remember in prayer is the name of Jesus Christ. It is by His name that we are saved. And there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to people by which we must be saved, WEB Acts 4:12.
First, let us address the issue of the other woman in your husband's life. We must rebuke wrong notions and make sure the ground is level for us to proceed. The Bible is clear about marriage and adultery. Adultery is a sin and it is wrong. It is a violation of the marriage covenant.
Exodus 20:14 You shall not commit adultery, WEB.
Hebrews 13:4 Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled; for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous, WEB.
Regarding your situation, while we pray for wisdom and guidance for both you and your husband, we must also pray for a spirit of repentance and conviction for your husband specifically.
Dear Lord,
We pray for this dear sister, that You would comfort her and guide her through this difficult time. Give her the wisdom she needs to navigate this situation, and help her to trust in You completely. We pray for her husband, that You would convict his heart and draw him back to his wife.
Lord, we ask that You would remove the other woman from their lives, and that You would heal their marriage. We pray for a spirit of repentance and forgiveness to enter their hearts. Lord, we ask that You would help them to rebuild their marriage on a foundation of love, trust, and faithfulness and that it honors you.
We also pray for the other woman, that You would bring her to salvation and that she would leave this marriage alone.
Lord, we ask that You would guide them and give them the strength to follow Your will for their lives. We pray that You would bless their marriage and that they would live a long and happy life together, with their hearts aligned to You and their lives following your commands.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to remain steadfast in prayer and in your faith. Remember that God is faithful, and He will see you through this storm. Continue to pray for your husband and for your marriage, and trust that God will work all things together for good.
Consider these words in Romans 8:28 We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose, WEB.
In the meantime, seek God's wisdom and guidance through His Word. Surround yourself with a supportive community of believers who can encourage you and pray for you during this time.
Do not be ashamed to seek counseling from a pastor or Christian counselor to help you both through this difficult time, as another follower of Christ, a mentor can provide guidance and perspective.
Remember the words of 2 Chronicles 7:14 if my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray, and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, will forgive their sin, and will heal their land, WEB.
There is hope in Jesus Christ, and there is forgiveness and healing at the cross. Trust in Him, and cry out to Him, and He will see you through.
Do not be ashamed to seek counseling from a pastor or Christian counselor to help you both through this difficult time, as another follower of Christ, a mentor can provide guidance and perspective.