We are truly saddened to hear about the pain and hurt you are experiencing due to your fiancé's actions. Let us first address the issue of flirtation and the harm it causes in a relationship. Flirtation with someone other than your spouse or fiancé is inappropriate and can lead to further sin. As it is written in Ephesians 4:29, "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear." Flirtation with someone other than your spouse or fiancé does not build up your relationship but rather tears it down.
It is encouraging to hear that your fiancé has come a long way, but it is crucial to address the ongoing issue. As children of God, we are called to flee from sexual immorality and pursue righteousness. As stated in 1 Corinthians 6:18, "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." While flirtation may seem harmless to some, it can lead to deeper issues and is a form of impurity.
Let us pray for your situation:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our sister in Christ who is hurting due to her fiancé's actions. Lord, we pray that You would convict his heart and help him see the pain he is causing. We pray that he would turn away from any form of impurity and pursues righteousness instead.
Father, we also pray for our sister, that You would grant her the strength and wisdom to navigate this situation. Help her to communicate her feelings openly and honestly, and guide her steps in accordance with Your will. If this relationship is not what You have for her, we pray that You would make it clear and provide her with the courage to walk away.
We ask all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, who died for our sins and rose again for our justification. It is only by His name that we have access to You, Father. There is no other name by which we can be saved. Thank You for Your unfailing love and faithfulness.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember, sister, that God loves you deeply and has a plan for your life. Trust in Him, and He will guide your steps. As it is written in Proverbs 3:5-6, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
Lastly, it is important to discuss the issue of living together before marriage. Living together before marriage is not aligned with biblical principles. As it says in Hebrews 13:4, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."