We are truly sorry to hear about this situation, and we will certainly pray for your son and his girlfriend. However, we must address several issues that are not aligned with biblical principles.
Firstly, it is important to understand that physical violence is never acceptable in any relationship. The Bible tells us to love one another and to exercise self-control. As it says in Galatians 5:22-23 WEB, "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law."
Your son's actions are a clear violation of these principles, and he needs to repent of his sin and seek forgiveness from God and from her. It is not just about apologizing and promising never to do it again; it is about acknowledging the severity of his actions and committing to change.
Additionally, we must address the issue of their relationship. As believers, we should pursue relationships that align with biblical principles, ultimately looking toward a godly marriage. We encourage your son to seek a Christian spouse rather than just a girlfriend and to avoid any premarital or non-marital sex. In Ephesians 5:3 WEB, it says, "But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints".
Lastly, as it pertains to your prayer request, we cannot pray for the girlfriend to take him back, as this would be enabling a harmful situation. Instead, we will pray for her safety, healing, and discernment as she navigates this situation. We will also pray for your son's genuine repentance, growth, and understanding of godly relationships. I do not see where the name of Jesus is mentioned in this request. It is only by His name that we can have access to God.
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up this young man and his girlfriend. Lord, we pray for her safety and healing, both physically and emotionally. Guide her with your wisdom and surround her with supportive believers who can help her navigate this difficult time.
Lord, we also pray for this young man. Convict his heart and bring him to true repentance for his actions. Help him to understand the severity of his sin and his need for your forgiveness and grace. Work in his life and teach him what it means to be a godly man, exercising self-control and love in all his relationships.
We pray that both of them will draw near to you and seek you first above all else. Shower them with your mercy and guide them according to your will.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage your son to seek professional help, such as counseling or therapy, to address his stress, work situation, and anger management issues. We also advise him to surround himself with a supportive Christian community that can hold him accountable and help him grow in his faith, love and relationship with Christ.