We understand your heart's cry and desire to keep your family together. Let us approach this in prayer and in alignment with God's Word.
Firstly, we notice that you've used the term "partner." As believers, we uphold marriage as the biblical standard for a family unit, where a man and a woman come together in a lifelong commitment (Mark 10:6-9 WEB). We will pray for your marriage to be strengthened and for you to be a loving husband and father.
We commend you for acknowledging the need to change and admit your faults. This is a crucial step towards reconciliation and growth. Remember, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9 WEB).
Let us pray:
*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Wylandamse and his marriage. Lord, we ask for Your grace and strength to be upon him as he seeks to change and become a loving husband and father. Guide him by Your Holy Spirit to acknowledge and turn away from his faults. We pray for his family, that You would surround them with Your love and protection. Heal their wounds, Lord, and draw them closer to You and to each other. We claim Your promise that "a cord of three strands is not quickly broken" (Ecclesiastes 4:12 WEB), and we ask that You be that third strand in their marriage, binding them together in love. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*
We encourage you to stay strong in faith and in the study of God's Word. Remember, "Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God" (Romans 12:2 WEB).
Lastly, we notice that your request did not mention the name of Jesus. It is by His name that we have access to God (John 14:6 WEB). We encourage you to invite Jesus into your life and your marriage, for He is the one who can bring true healing and restoration.